May 21, 2009 17:19
Why is it that when you don't contact someone for a week they send you an email asking if they've pissed you off? Especially when they KNOW that they DID!
I think that it's cleaning time again. Not of the house, that is ongoing. Of the "friends". I have one that has become overly passive/aggresive and does not want to communicate other than through email on MySpace. I am tired of it. If they really want to know, they can pick up the damned phone. Problem is, I think they know that if I verbalize my issues to them I'm gonna give them both barrels. Can they take it, probably not.
Why is that we are expected to accept behavior from "friends" that we would not otherwise tolerate from strangers? Since when is this a given in the realm of friendship?
And speaking of..... I will restate some of the things that Spitty said in her journal. Just because someone hangs with people into BDSM does not mean that they are into too. Just because someone hangs out with bisexuals and homosexuals does not mean that they are either of those either. Do not assume anything. Watch for signals, listen to conversations, or just fucking ask for christ's sake. Since when is it ok to assume that just because one person is into something that everyone that they know is to?
Stepping off of my soap box now. Please return to your regularly scheduled blogging.