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So... De-friended and blocked the phone number of the person in the last [f-locked] post. Decided that she had interfered with me enough and that I was done with it. Made one of my only Public facebook posts relating how defriending someone is hard, but sometimes has to be done.
Because I doubt my own actions, here's the finale of this great saga, in text message form, below the cut. Any opinions on whether I did the right thing or if I'm being a cruel, self-righteous bitch (which is how I feel right now) much appreciated
ACM-Missed Call April 19, 2012 5:50 pm
SCH Text: 6:46pm: Im at the hospital and my reception is spotty. What were you calling about?
ACM Text: 6:52pm: Nm Then
ACM Text: 7:14pm: A little fyi i relapsed, just to let u know
SCH Text: 7:17pm: I figured as much and it was always your call. You made it. Now leave me out of it
ACM Text: 7:18pm: U never bothered me at all, who the hell was I supposed to rely on?
ACM text: 7:26pm: The only person that checked on me was john
SCH Text: 7:33pm: so it was my responsibility to check up on you? To mother you, even as you pushed your own mother away? To give up my last few weeks with my grandfather so you can piss and moan about how hard life is without working to change it? All so you can ignore me and do what you want to anyway? No amy. You cant put this off on me. You are responsible for your own decisions. If you want to pick a fight and blame me fine but do it when im not taking care of a dying man
[SCH turns off phone, following messages stored]
ACM Text: 7:34pm: She pushed me away
ACM Text: 7:37pm: Just like she did with holly
Apr 29
[ACM makes post on facebook, around 2:20 am, regarding how if anyone has her number, they should call her. SCH sees message after 30 minutes and calls her. ACM quickly says "nevermind" and hangs up on SCH]
SCH: 3:00 am: Look, the message said call if anyone had your number. I did because it sounded like you needed help. I was speaking quietly not to wake anyone up. When I spoke louder, apparently you took that as anger. I wont get involved again. Peace
ACM: 3:01: I changed my mind on reaching out and u did say goodnight
ACM: 3:04: sorry for the invoncenience
SCH: 3:05: And I was still speaking when you hung up on me. Whatever floats your boat. Like I said, ill stay out of it from now on
ACM 3:06: I didn’t hear
SCH 3:06: W/e you say. Good night
ACM 3:07: Seriously I didn’t, this is y I wont reach out ne more
SCH 3:09: Because some people talk softly and you hang up or avoid the question? Sorry hun, but this is not something you can blame on me.
ACM 3:10: Im not, just don’t want to ne more
April 30th
ACM 6:18pm : Sorry about Saturday and u wont have to worry about that ne more
May 2nd
ACM 8:13 pm: If u want to talk ill be at the next door bar
SCH 9:55 : Cant and wont. Have fun.
ACM 9:55 : Whatever
ACM 9:57 : Its uncaring people like u y people like me turn to other things, this is just high school all over
ACM 10:02 : again
SCH 10:02 : Now look here bitch. I WAS THERE FOR YOU BUT YOU’VE BEEN AN UNCARING CUNT ABOUT ME. Have you thought of that? I was late at my grandad’s and I have an early morning. All you’ve done lately is blame me for your choices and I cant deal with abusive friendships on top of everything else ive got going on. Before you DARE get up on your high horse at me again, ask yourself when the last was you were there for me, or even when you asked how I was doing. Go ahead and whine all you want, but DO NOT demand my presence so you can bitch at me EVER AGAIN.
ACM 10:11 : Actually u weren’t and I tried to reach out U pushed me away and said I was being attention seeking, news flash, u r really the only person I was able to rely on
SCH 10:15 : No hun. I started ignoring your calls after your party bc you were being so uncaring to me. And yeah, ive said lately that you’re doing this for the attention because I cant see why else you would use again and push so m,any people who have tried to be there for you away and lie to us all. High school, you stopped talking to me not the other way around. Juniour year about halfway through.
ACM 10:17 : Really? That is why I straight did it in from of for attention? U have no idea what an addict is then really
[SCH calls ACM at 10:26 pm, rolls to voicemail]
SCH 10:35 : Lol you haven’t got the first idea. Look if this is the kind of cunt you’re going to be because I cant meet up at a bar with you on short notice while im taking care of other issues, I’d HATE to see how you would treat me if I showed up and tried to talk to you. You don’t want to hear what I have to say, which means the only reason for this whole text war and ignoring my calls to talk is that you crave the attention and the drama. If you are going to do rehab, do rehab and fucking commit to it because addiction CAN be beaten back. If you’re going to use anyhow, stop racking up a bill with the hospital and quit rehab. Walk the talk and stop lying to people.
ACM 10:51 : No the only reason is I don’t want others to hear me yell
SCH Blocks ACM’s phone number, active for 90 days.
Because I doubt my own actions, here's the finale of this great saga, in text message form, below the cut. Any opinions on whether I did the right thing or if I'm being a cruel, self-righteous bitch (which is how I feel right now) much appreciated
ACM-Missed Call April 19, 2012 5:50 pm
SCH Text: 6:46pm: Im at the hospital and my reception is spotty. What were you calling about?
ACM Text: 6:52pm: Nm Then
ACM Text: 7:14pm: A little fyi i relapsed, just to let u know
SCH Text: 7:17pm: I figured as much and it was always your call. You made it. Now leave me out of it
ACM Text: 7:18pm: U never bothered me at all, who the hell was I supposed to rely on?
ACM text: 7:26pm: The only person that checked on me was john
SCH Text: 7:33pm: so it was my responsibility to check up on you? To mother you, even as you pushed your own mother away? To give up my last few weeks with my grandfather so you can piss and moan about how hard life is without working to change it? All so you can ignore me and do what you want to anyway? No amy. You cant put this off on me. You are responsible for your own decisions. If you want to pick a fight and blame me fine but do it when im not taking care of a dying man
[SCH turns off phone, following messages stored]
ACM Text: 7:34pm: She pushed me away
ACM Text: 7:37pm: Just like she did with holly
Apr 29
[ACM makes post on facebook, around 2:20 am, regarding how if anyone has her number, they should call her. SCH sees message after 30 minutes and calls her. ACM quickly says "nevermind" and hangs up on SCH]
SCH: 3:00 am: Look, the message said call if anyone had your number. I did because it sounded like you needed help. I was speaking quietly not to wake anyone up. When I spoke louder, apparently you took that as anger. I wont get involved again. Peace
ACM: 3:01: I changed my mind on reaching out and u did say goodnight
ACM: 3:04: sorry for the invoncenience
SCH: 3:05: And I was still speaking when you hung up on me. Whatever floats your boat. Like I said, ill stay out of it from now on
ACM 3:06: I didn’t hear
SCH 3:06: W/e you say. Good night
ACM 3:07: Seriously I didn’t, this is y I wont reach out ne more
SCH 3:09: Because some people talk softly and you hang up or avoid the question? Sorry hun, but this is not something you can blame on me.
ACM 3:10: Im not, just don’t want to ne more
April 30th
ACM 6:18pm : Sorry about Saturday and u wont have to worry about that ne more
May 2nd
ACM 8:13 pm: If u want to talk ill be at the next door bar
SCH 9:55 : Cant and wont. Have fun.
ACM 9:55 : Whatever
ACM 9:57 : Its uncaring people like u y people like me turn to other things, this is just high school all over
ACM 10:02 : again
SCH 10:02 : Now look here bitch. I WAS THERE FOR YOU BUT YOU’VE BEEN AN UNCARING CUNT ABOUT ME. Have you thought of that? I was late at my grandad’s and I have an early morning. All you’ve done lately is blame me for your choices and I cant deal with abusive friendships on top of everything else ive got going on. Before you DARE get up on your high horse at me again, ask yourself when the last was you were there for me, or even when you asked how I was doing. Go ahead and whine all you want, but DO NOT demand my presence so you can bitch at me EVER AGAIN.
ACM 10:11 : Actually u weren’t and I tried to reach out U pushed me away and said I was being attention seeking, news flash, u r really the only person I was able to rely on
SCH 10:15 : No hun. I started ignoring your calls after your party bc you were being so uncaring to me. And yeah, ive said lately that you’re doing this for the attention because I cant see why else you would use again and push so m,any people who have tried to be there for you away and lie to us all. High school, you stopped talking to me not the other way around. Juniour year about halfway through.
ACM 10:17 : Really? That is why I straight did it in from of for attention? U have no idea what an addict is then really
[SCH calls ACM at 10:26 pm, rolls to voicemail]
SCH 10:35 : Lol you haven’t got the first idea. Look if this is the kind of cunt you’re going to be because I cant meet up at a bar with you on short notice while im taking care of other issues, I’d HATE to see how you would treat me if I showed up and tried to talk to you. You don’t want to hear what I have to say, which means the only reason for this whole text war and ignoring my calls to talk is that you crave the attention and the drama. If you are going to do rehab, do rehab and fucking commit to it because addiction CAN be beaten back. If you’re going to use anyhow, stop racking up a bill with the hospital and quit rehab. Walk the talk and stop lying to people.
ACM 10:51 : No the only reason is I don’t want others to hear me yell
SCH Blocks ACM’s phone number, active for 90 days.