so with all the shit that has been going on lately i can openly admit that i am fucked up. The 12th was the first 1 year aniversary of my dads death, and with still not dealing with it properly i am a mess
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It doesn't particularly sound like you're asking for a lot at all.
that's pretty fucking insensitive inviting someone over to just spend the night pashing their SO the entire time infront of them, fully aware that they indeed haven't the option.
Who the fuck does that anyway? I don't think I've ever done that, not that I'm the beacon of social ettiquite, maybe late at night whilst out drunk with friends, but not "hmm, come round to my place so you can watch me make out.". Some fucking barbecue.
Not that I know your ex, but he sounds manipulative and literally nuts purely from your above listed reactions and you should do everything in your power to avoid him imho, keep doing what you're doing :). Lying should not be tolerated in any way shape or form, unless you're hiding a present from somebody. then you lie. lie lie lie.
Threatening suicide is likely an attention ploy, from what I understand, most people that are really that depressed that they want to kill themselves, don't broadcast the message and whine about it, they just get down to business. But you never know, don't encourage it. I mean, if you think he's actually serious, refer him to Beyond Blue and tell him to get some help.
You don't make shit up like that (all your friends hate you, suiciding) unless there's something wrong with you.
Having your priorities Family, then friends (I don't want to say Family First because that reminds me of the fucking fundy political party *shakes fist*) is good that you've got them, in that order. Friends you can choose, family, you can't.
I've been a 3rd when going out before, unfortunately often, it's a sucky position, but it beats staying at home complaining.
I don't understand the whole "slut" thing at all, sounds utter bullshit. That's not the Kat I know.
Adelaide is a small place and I can understand the urge to get the fuck out. I don't really want to say "go" because it's cool when I see you :), but if you think that's for the best, do it.
Do it, harder, better, faster, stronger. more than hour, hour never work it. our work is never over. :)
that's pretty fucking insensitive inviting someone over to just spend the night pashing their SO the entire time infront of them, fully aware that they indeed haven't the option.
Who the fuck does that anyway? I don't think I've ever done that, not that I'm the beacon of social ettiquite, maybe late at night whilst out drunk with friends, but not "hmm, come round to my place so you can watch me make out.". Some fucking barbecue.
Not that I know your ex, but he sounds manipulative and literally nuts purely from your above listed reactions and you should do everything in your power to avoid him imho, keep doing what you're doing :). Lying should not be tolerated in any way shape or form, unless you're hiding a present from somebody. then you lie. lie lie lie.
Threatening suicide is likely an attention ploy, from what I understand, most people that are really that depressed that they want to kill themselves, don't broadcast the message and whine about it, they just get down to business. But you never know, don't encourage it. I mean, if you think he's actually serious, refer him to Beyond Blue and tell him to get some help.
You don't make shit up like that (all your friends hate you, suiciding) unless there's something wrong with you.
Having your priorities Family, then friends (I don't want to say Family First because that reminds me of the fucking fundy political party *shakes fist*) is good that you've got them, in that order. Friends you can choose, family, you can't.
I've been a 3rd when going out before, unfortunately often, it's a sucky position, but it beats staying at home complaining.
I don't understand the whole "slut" thing at all, sounds utter bullshit. That's not the Kat I know.
Adelaide is a small place and I can understand the urge to get the fuck out. I don't really want to say "go" because it's cool when I see you :), but if you think that's for the best, do it.
Do it, harder, better, faster, stronger. more than hour, hour never work it. our work is never over. :)
Ah, love those crazy frenchies.
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