tldr I'm fed up with Kevin's siblings...
so...Yesterday after work Tracy dropped Kevin and I off at his house, but I absolutely refused to go inside. I really have no interest in dealing with either of his siblings at the moment. Kevin apparently talked to Kenneth (well...yelled is probably a more accurate description, but I wasn't there so I wouldn't know). ALl I know is Kenneth stormed ( Read more... )
ONE OF THE SWEETEST PEOPLE ON THE PLANET!
It's not your responsibility to parent these kids, but it's a duty to yourself and Kevin (and your relationship) to stand up for yourself in a way that's true to you. You're not going to be able to win them with your kind sweetness, unfortunately. Neither of them ranks a "please" or "thank you" or any warning shots. Either of them moves to touch you when you don't want it or says anything you don't like, you say, "Stop". Don't say why, don't explain anything (because they don't care), don't do anything except say "Stop" and move locations. Step out of range of Grabby Kenneth. Give Terry "The Stare" and say "Stop", then ignore her. It'll be hard at first, but just having something you can do will help you.
Girls hate being ignored and disregarded, especially "Divas".
You don't deserve disrespect, especially not from these beastly kids.
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aww... i'm really not all thaaat sweet XD (i can be a pain sometimes...but at least i'm for the most part civil to people? D:)
heh. i guess i should start trying to counteract stuff. ...though..my first thought was the next time someone gets to close to just like... jab them... if you're in my personal space you can expect me to get you a few times (heck, i've done it to kevin, and i've nothing against him XD)
...yes they do, and yes she does. her first complaint about me was that i didn't say Hi to her O_o' (well...that was her vocalised one anyways).
when i first meet people i'm really shy and if they don't say something first i probably won't say anything to them (like a hi or anything). It took me a couple of months to start saying hi to kevin's parents with any regularity (or without him prompting me ahha)
the thing is she's never really said anything directly to my face, only mutterings...or when i'm not around -.-'
she just ignores me for the most part.
haha, beastly. I like that term >:3
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