real quick
so the day after i went to the bowling alley to see peter and steve, i told my mother the profound point they had made to me about how a woman has a predetermined checklist of what she wants to find in a man, and how a man just sees a woman that he wants and she becomes his checklist. (i explained that poorly, but the guys said it in a way that made sense.) then my mom goes, "andrea, that's just because men don't like shopping." i think they're both right.