is it so damn hard?
is the question i would like to pose to the people i live with. i've just about had enough - and just when i thought we were getting on again. it's nothing too overt but it is getting rather annoying.
things like putting the toilet seat up all the time just becasue harry did it as a joke to me a couple of times and it pissed them off. it shouldn't have done really - their other halves leave the toilet up too and i never say anything.
then there's the moving my stuff around the fridge when it suits them - like they are the only ones here and them having complete - or seemingly complete control over what goes in the flat and what doesn't. sometimes i wonder if they even realise what they are doing.
or maybe it's just that i don't open my mouth and ask them not to do it - becasue i know if i do they'll do it more. i can't seem to say anything to them in case they get worse. i just don't understand what is going on and why i always seem to just sit here and let it happen. (sometimes i do do little things... like remove my cleaning stuff so they can't use it).
grrrr it's like the maths revsion i'm doing at the moment as soon as i understand something i come across something else that i have to learn all over again!!!!!
Arami
things like putting the toilet seat up all the time just becasue harry did it as a joke to me a couple of times and it pissed them off. it shouldn't have done really - their other halves leave the toilet up too and i never say anything.
then there's the moving my stuff around the fridge when it suits them - like they are the only ones here and them having complete - or seemingly complete control over what goes in the flat and what doesn't. sometimes i wonder if they even realise what they are doing.
or maybe it's just that i don't open my mouth and ask them not to do it - becasue i know if i do they'll do it more. i can't seem to say anything to them in case they get worse. i just don't understand what is going on and why i always seem to just sit here and let it happen. (sometimes i do do little things... like remove my cleaning stuff so they can't use it).
grrrr it's like the maths revsion i'm doing at the moment as soon as i understand something i come across something else that i have to learn all over again!!!!!
Arami