Relationship with Scorp?

[azul_requiem]

 I think I might be jumping into my very first relationship with a Scorpio guy. Currently he's my friend but I have a feeling we both want more.

My birthday is February 17, 1994
His birthday is November 15, 1993

Advice/anyone who can speak from experience?

Comments

[mmyesidosay]

Ive never been in a relationship with one, but I can say from experience they can become very moody for long periods of times. And once they get in that funk, they dont come out. And they dont wanna talk about it. Even if you try to excuse yourself from their negative mood, they just wanna follow you around with it, making everyone else unhappy in the process.

That, and they can be very nasty and possessive, and say hurtful things without even knowing it.

Not to be a debbie downer or anything, lol. thats just been my experience with 'em. I try to avoid them at all costs now.

[charlsye]

Yes, this, all of this. My best friend is a Scorpio and I love her dearly but man oh man is she moody.

[mmyesidosay]

Yup, my BFF is one too. We've learned though to cope with it. She's learned to admit when shes moody and step back, and Ive learned to let her know when I need quiet time to recharge. It works decently, just sometimes, yeesh.

[azul_requiem]

Ah, that's the issue, I've never found myself to be really close with a Scorpio, until now. Bah.
But maybe since he's a male, he won't be as catty, like i'll admit he turns into a moody bitch, but my dad's a cancer so I know how to put up with that.

Possessive? He's the guy that's got a lot going on in his life, which means we'll have time for air, (no pun intended ;D) so that's kinda a relief. Idk. Thanks for your wisdom, I appreciate it. :)

[hydrozoa]

wow, well, you're an aquarius/pisces cusp, and pisces is a water sign, like scorpio, so . . . there's something. like elements usually have strong connections.

scorpios are very sexy and witty but, i don't know, kind of bitter and jealous too. some people don't mind that and might even dig it, but it's not my bag.

(this coming from someone who's dating a libra with a scorpio moon--the libra part is fabulous, but i get really grossed out by the snarky scorpio shit sometimes.)

anyway, who knows! check it out!

[azul_requiem]

Sexy and witty is what drew me in :P

Ahhhh, I checked out his chart, he's loaded with Scorpio influence, including his Venus. My Venus is in Pisces, so maybe that works out?

But thanks!

[snookielove]

I dated had a 2 month fling with a Scorpio. It was fun at first, but I quickly realized he was way too intense (psychotic?) for me. He was VERY jealous, controlling and moody. He "loved" me after like two weeks.. it was just a mess. I broke his heart, started running and never looked back.

That's just my experience though. My mom is also a Scorpio, and we get along well. I think it just depends on the person. Scorpios do tend to have extremely strong emotions, though. Keep that in mind.

If the spark is there, go for it! Just be cautious :)

[againstsex]

I've been with a Scorpio for the past 3 1/2 years and it's been wonderful so far. Then again, he's not really much like the stereotypical Scorpio. He can be moody sometimes, but he's not possessive or bitter or manipulative or ANYTHING. he's just wonderful - i keep thinking he maybe has a lot of Air signs in his chart (i know i have a lot of Earth signs in mine).

[azul_requiem]

AHHH,*hugs* first positive thing I've heard so far.
3 1/2 is a long time, and therefore I trust you have much Scorp experience :P
I think that male Scorpios are probably a lot easier to deal with. :)

[birday_1]

RUN.

[just_jo2]

LOL

[azul_requiem]

LMFAO, that's currently option #2 :)