I do not understand how people can be so thoughtless when it comes to their little ones. It frightens me but it says a lot about society i think. Why do you think so many of us are messed up.
It kills me when people say, "I did it with my son and he is just fine." Just fine usually is nothing more than still living because most people are effing miserable and have crap for social skills and coping skills.
I was really just wondering why Children and adults emotions we veiwed so differently.
I think people get angry because it is hard to hear a baby cry, and it makes them doubt their decisions to cry it out. (or ferberize, which seems to be better, i have since learned) It's not for me, but yes i can see that people use it for good reasons. But i know if i was confident in my parenting decision to cry it out, what i said in my post wouldnt have worried me. I wouldnt have commented but i wouldnt have gotten upset.
I dont equate it with child abuse or anything like that, I just dont get how different childrens fear, and loneliness, is treated to adults.
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It kills me when people say, "I did it with my son and he is just fine." Just fine usually is nothing more than still living because most people are effing miserable and have crap for social skills and coping skills.
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I think people get angry because it is hard to hear a baby cry, and it makes them doubt their decisions to cry it out. (or ferberize, which seems to be better, i have since learned) It's not for me, but yes i can see that people use it for good reasons. But i know if i was confident in my parenting decision to cry it out, what i said in my post wouldnt have worried me. I wouldnt have commented but i wouldnt have gotten upset.
I dont equate it with child abuse or anything like that, I just dont get how different childrens fear, and loneliness, is treated to adults.
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