This convo brought back memories of HS
FoxyChile (12:18:24 PM): but I don't normally go for the guy that all the girls want
AquaJon311 (12:18:32 PM): yeah...
FoxyChile (12:18:42 PM): b/c they are normally assholes and I'm just not attracted to the guy that doesn't have to work for it
FoxyChile (12:18:50 PM): you know what I mean?
AquaJon311 (12:18:53 PM): haha yeah
AquaJon311 (12:19:02 PM): they've become lazy in their ways
FoxyChile (12:19:05 PM): it's not about looks, it's about how his looks have affected his personality
FoxyChile (12:19:07 PM): exactly
FoxyChile (12:19:23 PM): that doesn't happen with girls, b/c will always be insecure no matter how beautiful they are
AquaJon311 (12:19:23 PM): it makes them boring
FoxyChile (12:19:26 PM): right
AquaJon311 (12:19:27 PM): and un-tactful
FoxyChile (12:19:37 PM): like, I love the guy that was a huge nerd growing up
FoxyChile (12:19:42 PM): and he had to learn to know himself
AquaJon311 (12:19:44 PM): haha
FoxyChile (12:19:45 PM): and rely on himself
AquaJon311 (12:19:58 PM): ME!
FoxyChile (12:20:02 PM): hehe
AquaJon311 (12:20:07 PM): i was the biggest nerd
FoxyChile (12:20:13 PM): no you weren't
AquaJon311 (12:20:15 PM): e-v-e-r
AquaJon311 (12:20:18 PM): yes i was
FoxyChile (12:20:19 PM): not at all
FoxyChile (12:20:26 PM): you just did your own thing
FoxyChile (12:20:30 PM): you weren't a nerd though
AquaJon311 (12:20:45 PM): aww... well that makes me feel a little better somehow
AquaJon311 (12:20:47 PM): ha
FoxyChile (12:20:53 PM): I think it's awesome
FoxyChile (12:21:00 PM): I wish I was a nerd and did my own thing
FoxyChile (12:21:06 PM): and didn't hang out with the idiots that I did
FoxyChile (12:21:18 PM): I probably would have had a much more interesting life
AquaJon311 (12:21:22 PM): yeah... i just never saw it as worthwhile
FoxyChile (12:21:42 PM): like, I wish I hung out with the theatre kids
FoxyChile (12:21:49 PM): those kids were COOOOL in retrospect
AquaJon311 (12:22:40 PM): they were alright
AquaJon311 (12:23:01 PM): some of them could even have egos that were too big though
FoxyChile (12:23:02 PM): I mean, obviously not all of them
FoxyChile (12:23:18 PM): I mean not everyone in ANY group is great
AquaJon311 (12:23:24 PM): yeah
FoxyChile (12:23:41 PM): but of the people I knew back then, I met a lot of really interesting people in those groups
FoxyChile (12:24:08 PM): though they were a little hyper-paranoid of the "cool kids"
FoxyChile (12:24:23 PM): and like, loved to hate them
FoxyChile (12:24:28 PM): even if they didn't know them
AquaJon311 (12:24:32 PM): true, true
FoxyChile (12:24:32 PM): which is really stupid
FoxyChile (12:25:09 PM): I've dated a couple of guys that I can tell were nerds and it's like they're so paranoid that I'm going to like some frat guy instead of them
FoxyChile (12:25:15 PM): which all goes back to their high school days
AquaJon311 (12:25:42 PM): yeah
AquaJon311 (12:26:37 PM): I was cool with everyone... I tried to like everyone. I really tried hard to make friends... I'm sure nobody really knew what it meant to me to get a "hey what's up" in the hallway
FoxyChile (12:26:51 PM): awwww Jon
FoxyChile (12:26:57 PM): that makes me feel so bad
FoxyChile (12:27:02 PM): I should have done more
AquaJon311 (12:27:11 PM): no u did
FoxyChile (12:27:19 PM): no, I didn't do enough
AquaJon311 (12:27:24 PM): i was just not good at making friends besides guys on the swim team, and my friends at the other HS
FoxyChile (12:27:37 PM): but I should have been there for you more
FoxyChile (12:27:54 PM): it was just such a strange time
AquaJon311 (12:27:57 PM): well i always thought u were
FoxyChile (12:28:06 PM): really?
FoxyChile (12:28:22 PM): for some reason, I just really feel like I wasn't good enough of a friend
FoxyChile (12:28:35 PM): in elementary school and jr. high, yeah
FoxyChile (12:28:41 PM): but not enough in high school
AquaJon311 (12:29:01 PM): well everyone goes through phases
FoxyChile (12:29:09 PM): but that's no excuse
FoxyChile (12:29:20 PM): I'm sorry
AquaJon311 (12:29:38 PM): well u say that now... but back then like u said, u were going through a weird time
AquaJon311 (12:29:43 PM): and i totally understood that
AquaJon311 (12:29:47 PM): so i was never hurt
FoxyChile (12:30:44 PM): but we were all going through a weird time
FoxyChile (12:30:47 PM): so that's no excuse
AquaJon311 (12:31:04 PM): haha yeah... HS was crazy
FoxyChile (12:31:13 PM): our high school was evil
FoxyChile (12:31:19 PM): haha
AquaJon311 (12:31:19 PM): i know!
FoxyChile (12:31:26 PM): like worst than most I think
AquaJon311 (12:31:40 PM): probably... we were soooooo bad
AquaJon311 (12:32:02 PM): people getting thier stomachs pumped in ambulances at school dances
FoxyChile (12:32:17 PM): haha
FoxyChile (12:32:18 PM): yep
AquaJon311 (12:32:21 PM): all the pot smoking
FoxyChile (12:32:28 PM): the back stabbing
FoxyChile (12:32:44 PM): the bitches
AquaJon311 (12:32:54 PM): there were sooo many bitches
AquaJon311 (12:32:54 PM): haha
FoxyChile (12:33:00 PM): no kidding
FoxyChile (12:33:06 PM): and I was friends with some of them
FoxyChile (12:33:10 PM): and I was probably one of them
AquaJon311 (12:33:29 PM): i wasn't even involved in any of that haha
FoxyChile (12:33:36 PM): no, you were smart
FoxyChile (12:34:13 PM): oh well
FoxyChile (12:34:19 PM): at least we have each other now
AquaJon311 (12:34:25 PM): yeah, definitely