My sister is appalling.
So I offered to do her senior pictures for her because duh, it’s what I do. But I told her I wanted her to be my “senior ambassador” which basically just means that we do a mini session earlier in the year so she can show off her pictures to her friends before the actual senior picture season begins. Then later on we do a real session once she's closer to being a senior. We finally get today scheduled and she has forgotten about it. Fine. So I wait for her to figure out her stupid outfit and put on make up but she needs help. Then I find a shirt of mine in her closet.
Backstory: This is a shirt that I had bought in Vegas a few years ago and REALLY liked. I never even got to wear it when I realized that it was missing. I searched through literally EVERY thing I owned to see if I had misplaced it. But no. It just disappeared. I accused her of taking it without asking and she got all huffy about being accused and even though I really thought she had it, I didn’t have proof and actually felt a little guilty about accusing her.
Fast forward to today. This shirt is hanging in her closet! And, not only does it not fit me now, but it didn’t even fit her cause her tits are way bigger than mine and there is a huge rip down the middle of it. So I’m pretty annoyed with her for keeping it from me this whole time when she KNEW I had been searching for it! She starts acting like I’M the one who is being a bitch and “it’s just a shirt!” Who steals from someone else and then acts like it’s no big deal? I told her that yes it is just a shirt and it’s not really a big deal except for the fact that she KNEW I really wanted to wear it and couldn’t find it and didn’t just tell me that she had it. I can’t tell you how much time I wasted searching for that goddamned shirt when it went missing! I would have let her just borrow it as much as she wanted. Was it really so much to ask that I get to wear it a few times myself?
And, in the end, I really don’t care about the shirt. I’m just really upset that she acts like she’s doing ME a favor by having me do her pictures and doesn’t respect my time at all. It’s not like we spend a couple hours taking shots and then I upload them and they’re ready. I have to spend HOURS retouching them to make them acceptable/professional quality. And after I’m already all the way up in Longmont she starts insulting me and disrespecting me so bad that I seriously thought I was going to punch her in the face.
She can suck it. She can pay for her own professional photographer if she wants her fucking pictures done. Just because someone is related to you doesn’t mean you get to act like that. I NEVER want to have my own kids because they’ll just grow up and become teenagers who expect the world handed to them.
Backstory: This is a shirt that I had bought in Vegas a few years ago and REALLY liked. I never even got to wear it when I realized that it was missing. I searched through literally EVERY thing I owned to see if I had misplaced it. But no. It just disappeared. I accused her of taking it without asking and she got all huffy about being accused and even though I really thought she had it, I didn’t have proof and actually felt a little guilty about accusing her.
Fast forward to today. This shirt is hanging in her closet! And, not only does it not fit me now, but it didn’t even fit her cause her tits are way bigger than mine and there is a huge rip down the middle of it. So I’m pretty annoyed with her for keeping it from me this whole time when she KNEW I had been searching for it! She starts acting like I’M the one who is being a bitch and “it’s just a shirt!” Who steals from someone else and then acts like it’s no big deal? I told her that yes it is just a shirt and it’s not really a big deal except for the fact that she KNEW I really wanted to wear it and couldn’t find it and didn’t just tell me that she had it. I can’t tell you how much time I wasted searching for that goddamned shirt when it went missing! I would have let her just borrow it as much as she wanted. Was it really so much to ask that I get to wear it a few times myself?
And, in the end, I really don’t care about the shirt. I’m just really upset that she acts like she’s doing ME a favor by having me do her pictures and doesn’t respect my time at all. It’s not like we spend a couple hours taking shots and then I upload them and they’re ready. I have to spend HOURS retouching them to make them acceptable/professional quality. And after I’m already all the way up in Longmont she starts insulting me and disrespecting me so bad that I seriously thought I was going to punch her in the face.
She can suck it. She can pay for her own professional photographer if she wants her fucking pictures done. Just because someone is related to you doesn’t mean you get to act like that. I NEVER want to have my own kids because they’ll just grow up and become teenagers who expect the world handed to them.