des enfants.
One of my former schoolmates has just married... Another one is getting married in July...
It seems that we have grown up.
But never, never ever would I want to have such a wedding ;) In such a register office, then going for a walk in a yard next to my former school =/ Suum cuique, naturellement, mais ce n'est pas pour moi ;)
Well, as for me, I wouldn't keep my baby, if I became pregnant now. She did.
I wouldn't want to become a mother at the age of 19, what could I give to a child right now!?! I don't want to get any children until I am utterly sure that I'm able to take proper care of them (and that means material prosperity, no matter how banal it might sound), that they will have a loving father, that they will live in security and harmony. Not earlier. Nada.
And - inspired by a "discussion" in a very funny :-P community man_woman - NEVER in my life would I want children "for myself" - i.e. without a "real" father. Never in my life would I want to have children simply like that, because I'd be at a certain age, because I would want something to play with or something like that. NEVER. Brrrr.
And you can call me childfree if you wish. ;-) I'm just aware of the fact that a child means 100% responsibility. And not a toy.
P.S. I have no maternal instinct, and I've never found babies cute ;-)
It seems that we have grown up.
But never, never ever would I want to have such a wedding ;) In such a register office, then going for a walk in a yard next to my former school =/ Suum cuique, naturellement, mais ce n'est pas pour moi ;)
Well, as for me, I wouldn't keep my baby, if I became pregnant now. She did.
I wouldn't want to become a mother at the age of 19, what could I give to a child right now!?! I don't want to get any children until I am utterly sure that I'm able to take proper care of them (and that means material prosperity, no matter how banal it might sound), that they will have a loving father, that they will live in security and harmony. Not earlier. Nada.
And - inspired by a "discussion" in a very funny :-P community man_woman - NEVER in my life would I want children "for myself" - i.e. without a "real" father. Never in my life would I want to have children simply like that, because I'd be at a certain age, because I would want something to play with or something like that. NEVER. Brrrr.
And you can call me childfree if you wish. ;-) I'm just aware of the fact that a child means 100% responsibility. And not a toy.
P.S. I have no maternal instinct, and I've never found babies cute ;-)