Mar 25, 2008 09:44
I am vice chairman of the board and former chairman of the board of a local domestic violence shelter. I daily work the ins and outs of getting women out of their abusive relationships.
Well at least 10 times a month these abusers would accuse me of sleeping with their wives (never done that) while I was married.
Well.
Now that I’m single they accuse me at least 30 times a month. At work today one of the abusers called to tell my office manager that I was sleeping with one of the employees (who I just recently helped get away from her abuser). Not true. Unethical in my book and I’m too short to be her type anyhow. (But my personality is tall ha ha).
Here we go again calling the cops and getting ready for the confrontation. Can’t some men just get some security in their lives and not be so needy? I take it all in stride as another daily occurence for me now.
For all the accusations, I’m really not able to handle 30 sexual relationships with survivors of domestic violence a month. That’s not how I roll. It’s not ethical to take advantage of these ladies in their most vulnerable time. But I try to be an example for them of how good life gets when you are re-single-fied.
All I ask is that the abuser attack someone else’s car.