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[aplaceinthestar]

Emailed Jay a while ago to ask him a Crabby Cat-related question about some behaviour issues I was noticing - she's old, and I think she may be starting to go senile, and I wanted an opinion from someone who knows cats well. Whatever, probably a mistake, taken. I was short, curt, formal, and to the point, no spare words or details, purely business

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[stephawoosel]

I think it's perfectly normal to feel all of those things, and they aren't very pleasant things to feel! After all, August wasn't too terribly long ago and you were together for a long time. You probably haven't seen his face since then and it prompted a resurgence of thoughts/feelings/memories/etc. It's like a shock to the system and those feelings will probably hang around for a few days. Just remind yourself that they will pass/lessen up.

I hope Crabby Cat is doing o.k. We should hang out soon.

[cnukau18]

and this is how shoes get all over the apartment. why he attached a picture is beyond me because let's face it- unnecessary. i'd say fury is a healthy feeling. as is anger, relief, and resentment. they're fun feelings. and you dated him for long enough to have such a reaction.

just don't go hurling yourself out a window.

also- what's up with crabby kitty?

[shttrbug08]

For fuck's sake! Some guys are just unable to avoid causing other's pain. Whether he meant it or not, he should have considered your feelings before being selfish and randomly sending you a pic. I wish he had said something more useful about crabby kitty to make it worth it. Apparently he's not even useful in that regard.

I'm sure she'll be OK. All cats get old. It's just about mitigating the effects of old age. Here's what my vet sent us when one of my grandmother's cats got older and started seeming disoriented - http://www.vet.cornell.edu/fhc/brochures/seniorcat.html

[sharky04]

Boys are stupid.

And you as everyone else has already said, you have every right to have felt the way you did.Just make sure that you don't throw yourself out the window cause that would make the rest of us sad. love ya bina <3

hope crabby kitty is doing alright