I don;t even pretend to understand some other women any more.
Here's why.
So Sunday night my tax information was rudely questioned and I got the usual you-gotta-get-a-baby treatment, from my supervisor, who then laughed at me.
I yelled at her, "I am NOT going to HAVE a BABY just FOR the tax REfund. It was probably more of a yelp that a real yell.
I want better than that, and i don't see what's so very difficult about that.
She said i should have a baby just to get the big tax refund, never mind that i don't have a car yet. I don't have my own flat. But I "gotta" get a baby. Since i have a uterus y'know.
Never mind that we are talking about my life and that of another person's life, of whom i do not have th'right to fuck up, and whether or i not i still want children. My supervisor is a 33 year old black girl, with three children of her own. She has given me more shit about this that anyone i have ever met. EVER. I don't know if it's 'cos she is black,but she ranks up ther with the assholes. I can take being a singleton
but i have had enough of her.
I always talk to my sister after this crapulent treatment.
I had her "dealt with" Monday afternoon. I called the director of the ALF where we work and i told her all about it, and i also mentioned that she had done it several times. I haven't heard a peep out of her, these past couple days. That's fine with me.
I'd say she's a woman , but she can't really be much of a woman if she is so adamant about me having a baby. She is certainly not a friend, and she has a lot more growing up to do than i have if she is not willing to realise that. I guess it doesn't bother her if her children all have different fathers, and that the job doesn't even have decent insurance.