Some people....
Some people make me really dry-heave in real life.
I really don't care when people are shitty to others. Everyone has to follow their own path, and for some that is the path of the shit-head. As grown up people, we have the option of avoiding shit-heads, or choosing to end a relationship with one when we get fed up with shit-headiness.
Shit-heads are people too, they deserve equal time. I just wish they didn't work so hard to convince others that they are not shit-heads (and that anyone who has a problem with them must be one instead).
You know how you act, if you're going to be a shit at least be confident about it and don't try to convince me that you're not.
You've lived with yourself a long time. You know how you are. If you were able to look at yourself through someone else's eyes for 2 minutes you'd HAVE TO realize how grating and unpleasant it is to be around you. You couldn't possible deny that you are a huge part (probably most) of the problem in any given situation.
Sometime I actually respect shit-heads for certain qualities. I admire how they are able to go about their lives without the hindrance of being considerate to others. I admire how they are able to accomplish their goals (usually by stepping on some toes and having no one to share their success with).
BUT- once they play the "I don't know why people don't like me, this is so unexpected." card, they really do lose all of my respect.
Take some goddam responsibility for yourself! Be proud of the choices you've made and the way you conduct yourself but don't misrepresent it. A great (cartoon sailor) man once said, "I am what I am, and that's all that I am."
Being a shit-head is OK.
Trying to take a major piss on someone (for not wanting to deal with your shit anymore) and then try to convince me that its raining is the very definition of NOT OK.
I really don't care when people are shitty to others. Everyone has to follow their own path, and for some that is the path of the shit-head. As grown up people, we have the option of avoiding shit-heads, or choosing to end a relationship with one when we get fed up with shit-headiness.
Shit-heads are people too, they deserve equal time. I just wish they didn't work so hard to convince others that they are not shit-heads (and that anyone who has a problem with them must be one instead).
You know how you act, if you're going to be a shit at least be confident about it and don't try to convince me that you're not.
You've lived with yourself a long time. You know how you are. If you were able to look at yourself through someone else's eyes for 2 minutes you'd HAVE TO realize how grating and unpleasant it is to be around you. You couldn't possible deny that you are a huge part (probably most) of the problem in any given situation.
Sometime I actually respect shit-heads for certain qualities. I admire how they are able to go about their lives without the hindrance of being considerate to others. I admire how they are able to accomplish their goals (usually by stepping on some toes and having no one to share their success with).
BUT- once they play the "I don't know why people don't like me, this is so unexpected." card, they really do lose all of my respect.
Take some goddam responsibility for yourself! Be proud of the choices you've made and the way you conduct yourself but don't misrepresent it. A great (cartoon sailor) man once said, "I am what I am, and that's all that I am."
Being a shit-head is OK.
Trying to take a major piss on someone (for not wanting to deal with your shit anymore) and then try to convince me that its raining is the very definition of NOT OK.