one would have to assume so, unfortunately. i heard a version of events where it was some sort of overblown incident in which nathaniel called the cops with no real justification. looking for truth in any situation involving those two is a slippery, and moot, slope. she is no kind of mother, that's plain to see. when she was staying with me, she would borrow my car claiming to need to go see cougar at her mom's place but really just needing to go steal money from her mom and then buying dope with it. she pulled the same shit on my friend, tad, while she was staying with him. in reality, she just let her son go weeks without any contact from her. i think i remember the two of them speaking on the phone once. i'm no saint and i was doing dope at the time, too. i feel bad for contributing to her piss-poor mockery of motherhood by providing money, transportation, etc. i enabled her, to be sure. but i don't have a child and if i was as morally lacking as either of cougar's parents, i would have myself sterilized. having a child just because they're cute is a shameful thing to do. cougar's in the age range now where he will remember a lot of things. i've seen him point at the hole that nate bashed in sam's bedroom door and say "daddy". i've heard him repeat the word "dope" over and over after hearing it from his mother's mouth when she was calling her mexicans to cop dope. his only real chance is to have both of those walking cancers excised from his life. if not, he'll grow up hating women. boys who grow up with promiscuous, irresponsible mothers often have a real complex about women later in life. every time i hear sam's name brought up these days, it's a story about how she was over at someone's house and stole some cash when their backs were turned. she's certainly been around him high enough times and she has no interest in getting clean, no matter her claims. and nathaniel is pretty much just a repressed homosexual whose inability to be with other men has culminated in a masochistic, misogynistic, fetishistic cycle of sexually degrading any woman unlucky or unwise enough to get tangled up with him. i used to feel bad for myself for having gotten tangled up with those scumbags but adults are able to walk away when they see the void where sam's and nate's souls should be. cougar doesn't have that option and he's the only real victim in the situation. hopefully samantha's mom has realized the grave mistakes she made in rearing that monster and will be able to raise cougar with the knowledge of what she inflicted on the world by bringing sam into it. otherwise, cougar will continue to serve as a bargaining chip in the ever-mundanej, back-and-forth, love/hate/rape abomination between samantha and nathaniel.
you're right, i don't. my only comments were based on the suggestions from his comments above. i have no beef with you, or anyone else. but my comment was hypothetical, meaning IF cougar WAS being neglected, etc etc.
but you've called me names - which, keep in mind, you don't know shit about me or MY life either /:
i don't have to tell you to ignore her negativity; her ignorance speaks for itself. it doesn't matter that i don't really know you personally, your livejournal shows that you are a dedicated mother. that is something samantha could claim to be any day of the week but, if you disregard the attestations of her two-person cheerleading squad, it is not true in the least. i have no reason to misinform anyone about her. the truth is worse than most lies i could dream up. she is EXTREMELY immature and, if she manages not to overdose, she is still tens of years away from anything that could be called maturity. it would be nice, for her son's sake, to imagine that she could become a person in short order but there isn't a chance. she lives in a fantasy world, to be sure. she is ALWAYS the victim. her mind has an acute inability to process logic so no amount of advice or aid will make a difference. she is determined to wallow in a personally created reality that bears no resemblance to the actual one. lost cause, all the way. it wouldn't be distressing if she didn't have a son whose life is going to be shaped by what is sure to be a chain of failures and shortcomings. don't fret her empty words; i haven't heard someone resort to weight or socioeconomic-related cracks since high school. i regret to say that i resorted to it in my responses to her but that is because i don't trust her to translate the rest of my condemnations of her at dictionary.com.
well, ya know, i don't take her words to close to heart because i know she is "sick" (even if by choice) and i've had the pleasure of dating recovering drug addicts, addicts and the life. its really no way to be and it does make you less of a person, a mature person, even if you weren't much of one to begin with. i don't really know sam, as i said before, and i don't really have anything against her but she comes in here defending herself and calling you a stalker - you're not on her friends list so how did she find this post you know? isn't it always the guilty that are so quick to defend? she called me poor, which, right now IS true because i AM a teen mother.. but.. my mom doesn't take care of my child and my mom doesn't give me handouts and i don't steal money from people, you know? if so by the true definition of poverty, considering she doesn't have a real "job", wouldn't that make her poor, as well? and fat i can always work on, but her character will always stay.
yes, the idea of me stalking her is a hoot and a half. i just wanted to show a friend how haggard she looked in her first mugshot (the presence of which i was alerted to by another friend, i assure you i did not stalk my way into that knowledge) and, lo and behold, it appeared that she had been arrested for an even more heinous crime. one's poverty level is pretty 3rd grade to take shots at, i must say. and i've seen pictures of you; you're a sexy mama no matter which direction the scale may fluctuate in. glad you dig the icon. it's actually me! you're the first to voice your appreciation of it. i've always liked how it came out, too.
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you're right, i don't. my only comments were based on the suggestions from his comments above.
i have no beef with you, or anyone else. but my comment was hypothetical, meaning IF cougar WAS being neglected, etc etc.
but you've called me names - which, keep in mind, you don't know shit about me or MY life either /:
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later mama.
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your icon is pretty awesome, btw.
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