Last time I'm going through this.

[anti_clockwised]

Okay, I'm getting really tired of all this bullshit. All I keep hearing is nothing but he said/she said. What did I freaking do!? I don't remember anyone calling me either! All I did was break up with Brian! Why am I being punished for it!? Was I just supposed to carry on like everything was fine and wonderful to make everyone happy? I'm sorry!

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[samanthuhhh]

And I wasn't kidding when I said I missed you either. But don't say you've lost all your best friends when you know I've been trying to stay in contact with you despite all that's happened. I'm still here for you and I'm still gonna be your friend no matter what. I'm not judging any of your choices. I'm not gonna let you guys' business interfere with my friendship with you. I'll respect whatever you do.

However...

True, people haven't called, but it's not because we don't care or that we think you're some kind of undeserving "heartless bitch." Brian is heartbroken, Sara. He needs us. He needs people to talk to. Yes, it's been like a month now, yes him talking about you all the time gets annoying, yes you need people to talk to too, but you're also doing very well for yourself. Look what you did all on your own in the past week! Without anyone's help! Brian can't even be alone with himself for like an hour without going crazy. He even has trouble sleeping. That's why we hung out so much. He was afraid to be alone. And I could be wrong, but I really don't think you guys' situation is hitting you as hard as it's hitting him. You guys dated for 2 years! You were in love! You saw each other every single day! He has so many memories with you. You were practically his entire world! So when things didn't work out, to him all of that was pretty much gone, and then you left for college right after. So you weren't just gone emotionally, but physically too. You went from being six streets away from him to like, six hours away. How is he supposed to take that? You can't just forget a 2-year relationship at the drop of a hat, let alone a timespan of only over a month. It takes time to get over someone, especially your first love.

I know you've moved on though, and I know what how it is having to break bad news to good people. It kills your conscience. But I don't think you're a bitch and I won't label you as one. You just have a different perspective on things and you want to take a different road. Nothing wrong with that. So I can see where you're coming from and I can see where he's coming from, too. That's the hard part.

You'd be surprised how much it blows for the rest of us having to "choose sides" between two of our best friends, too.