Reflection on 2008
The new year is almost upon us...so..Let's do some reflecting. I don't have jack to do except find ways to keep me awake...
Hmm Month by month sounds pretty good...
January: I decided officially that I was going to leave Evan and move back home. This was all in all a blah kinda month. I was starting to get in touch with Art again...I think we were trying to get back together...Or at least we were talking about it.
February: I moved back home and started trying to figure out how to break up with someone who couldn't take the hint. I was still talking to Art, and then began to realize, that nothing was ever going to happen. I began to turn my persuits elsewhere. I put up an ad on Craigslist, and got some responses...No one even vaguely interesting. Evan finally took the hint in the last days of Feb. It felt so good to not be with him anymore. He's probably the worst boyfriend I've ever had, and I've had some bad ones. Jose was still hounding me to to see him at work.
March: Was seeing Art once or twice a month...We actually finally slept together. After....what...4 years? And Then communication started tapering and it seemed like he didn't really want it and I quit working for it. I posted another Ad on Craiglist, and I got one good solid viable response from a young aspiring architecht by the name of Andrew. We had our first date on March 25th. We went to Claim Jumper and star gazing, even though it was cloudy. Jose was still bothering me to see him.
April: Things started heating up with Andrew, and simmering with Art. I decided to give up all hope on Art, and I did.
May: Went to go see the Dresden Dolls with Andrew in San Francisco. It was absolutely incredible, and I loved the hotel we stayed in. When we came back, a couple weeks later, we went bowling, and I realized that I was in love with Andrew. This was probably the best night of my life. We went bowling and it was soooo perfect.
June: Good month, waiting for Andrew to say the words, instead of just looking at me and saying them in his head or to me while I was asleep. :/
July: FINALLY! I told him I loved him because I couldn't hold it in any longer. He said it back like I knew he would.
August: I got the stomach flu, was out for like 3 days, ended up in ER because I was so heinously dehydrated. Then Andrew got it, and I spent my days off taking care of him. I got him a remote control car to play with, and I think it made him feel better. His parents bragged to their friends about me, that's never happened. Got my performance review at work. It wasn't pretty. I was slacking off and I decided to step up my game at work.
September: I went on a cruise. I got to go snorkling. I saw jelly fish and a barracuda and a sting ray and lots of Dori's. It was wicked cool. I got sooo sunburned though. It was worth it. Took Andrew to LA for his birthday. Went and saw every Frank Lloyd Wright House in LA, and went to the Standard's Roof top bar and had a 60 dollar bar tab for like..5 drinks. It was a good day/night though.
October: I got to wear a skank-tastic halloween costume, Andrew got way to drunk, but I got to spend the night parent sanctioned. Andrew brought up living together in like 6 months maybe...but I don't think that'll happen. He's got student loans and stuff to consider now, and I need to know that I'm the one before i go there. I know he is, but I need to know that he knows.
November: Life as normal. My bosses picked up on my "helpfulness" So, let's hope that gets me an interview here soon. Started feeling kind of nauseated....Didn't think much of it.
December: Holy crap. Peed on like 3 sticks...and...Bam! Prego! So I'll be punching out a kiddo in 2009. :) Andrew told me I was the one. It felt so good to know that.
And that's it. All in all, so far, a good year. I met the man of my dreams, and am sublimly happy. :) Yay me!
Hmm Month by month sounds pretty good...
January: I decided officially that I was going to leave Evan and move back home. This was all in all a blah kinda month. I was starting to get in touch with Art again...I think we were trying to get back together...Or at least we were talking about it.
February: I moved back home and started trying to figure out how to break up with someone who couldn't take the hint. I was still talking to Art, and then began to realize, that nothing was ever going to happen. I began to turn my persuits elsewhere. I put up an ad on Craigslist, and got some responses...No one even vaguely interesting. Evan finally took the hint in the last days of Feb. It felt so good to not be with him anymore. He's probably the worst boyfriend I've ever had, and I've had some bad ones. Jose was still hounding me to to see him at work.
March: Was seeing Art once or twice a month...We actually finally slept together. After....what...4 years? And Then communication started tapering and it seemed like he didn't really want it and I quit working for it. I posted another Ad on Craiglist, and I got one good solid viable response from a young aspiring architecht by the name of Andrew. We had our first date on March 25th. We went to Claim Jumper and star gazing, even though it was cloudy. Jose was still bothering me to see him.
April: Things started heating up with Andrew, and simmering with Art. I decided to give up all hope on Art, and I did.
May: Went to go see the Dresden Dolls with Andrew in San Francisco. It was absolutely incredible, and I loved the hotel we stayed in. When we came back, a couple weeks later, we went bowling, and I realized that I was in love with Andrew. This was probably the best night of my life. We went bowling and it was soooo perfect.
June: Good month, waiting for Andrew to say the words, instead of just looking at me and saying them in his head or to me while I was asleep. :/
July: FINALLY! I told him I loved him because I couldn't hold it in any longer. He said it back like I knew he would.
August: I got the stomach flu, was out for like 3 days, ended up in ER because I was so heinously dehydrated. Then Andrew got it, and I spent my days off taking care of him. I got him a remote control car to play with, and I think it made him feel better. His parents bragged to their friends about me, that's never happened. Got my performance review at work. It wasn't pretty. I was slacking off and I decided to step up my game at work.
September: I went on a cruise. I got to go snorkling. I saw jelly fish and a barracuda and a sting ray and lots of Dori's. It was wicked cool. I got sooo sunburned though. It was worth it. Took Andrew to LA for his birthday. Went and saw every Frank Lloyd Wright House in LA, and went to the Standard's Roof top bar and had a 60 dollar bar tab for like..5 drinks. It was a good day/night though.
October: I got to wear a skank-tastic halloween costume, Andrew got way to drunk, but I got to spend the night parent sanctioned. Andrew brought up living together in like 6 months maybe...but I don't think that'll happen. He's got student loans and stuff to consider now, and I need to know that I'm the one before i go there. I know he is, but I need to know that he knows.
November: Life as normal. My bosses picked up on my "helpfulness" So, let's hope that gets me an interview here soon. Started feeling kind of nauseated....Didn't think much of it.
December: Holy crap. Peed on like 3 sticks...and...Bam! Prego! So I'll be punching out a kiddo in 2009. :) Andrew told me I was the one. It felt so good to know that.
And that's it. All in all, so far, a good year. I met the man of my dreams, and am sublimly happy. :) Yay me!