self-theory pt.1
kaye told me of these self-theories of her and i think it's important to know yourself before getting to know others...wala lang...i think this is something i haven't done for myself so why not start now? hehe i'll post my theories mostly for myself so that i get to remember what they are but then again might as well share it here..haha
i think i have this "superman" mentality or a penchant of wanting to help others...i remember there was a time asa trinoma kami...kaye and i were standing in line coz kaye bought sumthng from watson's...tas biglang may nadulas na babae near us (well may sign naman tlga na wet floor kasi nagmomop ung janitor)...so malapit sya samin and i thought of helping her pero di ko ginawa...tas after nun mejo na-guilty ako na di ko sya natulungan so linabas ko 'to kay kaye...then kaye goes na ok lang un and she also goes, "hindi ka naman si atlas so hindi mo dapat pinapasan ung mga problema ng mundo"...and naisip ko nga na tama sya
i've always thought that being a good friend meant na kapag malungkot ung friend mo, u'll do whatever it takes to make your friend happy..to just forget her problems but i don't think this is healthy..as char said, sumtyms people really do have to go through sad and difficult times coz this would help them move on and accept things as they are and i thought that it makes perfect sense.
wala lang..naisip ko na there are some things that i really just can't do for sum1 e...i think i had a wrong notion of being a good friend...a good friend doesn't try to take your problems away... he's someone who's there with you with your problems...dinadamayan ka...makiki-iyak pa if kelangan...sum1 who's willing to drop what he's doing for you and tell you na "kaya mo yan"...someone who's there with you during your good times as well as your bad times...yun ang masarap na kaibigan...haha
ang dami ko pang naisip na ilagay but nakalimutan ko na...haha well my point is i would very like to say na i tried to be that good friend as much as i can...even if i had the wrong notion before but still, for my friends i'd like to say na i tried as best as i can to be a good friend and i'd still be trying from now on..hehe
i think i have this "superman" mentality or a penchant of wanting to help others...i remember there was a time asa trinoma kami...kaye and i were standing in line coz kaye bought sumthng from watson's...tas biglang may nadulas na babae near us (well may sign naman tlga na wet floor kasi nagmomop ung janitor)...so malapit sya samin and i thought of helping her pero di ko ginawa...tas after nun mejo na-guilty ako na di ko sya natulungan so linabas ko 'to kay kaye...then kaye goes na ok lang un and she also goes, "hindi ka naman si atlas so hindi mo dapat pinapasan ung mga problema ng mundo"...and naisip ko nga na tama sya
i've always thought that being a good friend meant na kapag malungkot ung friend mo, u'll do whatever it takes to make your friend happy..to just forget her problems but i don't think this is healthy..as char said, sumtyms people really do have to go through sad and difficult times coz this would help them move on and accept things as they are and i thought that it makes perfect sense.
wala lang..naisip ko na there are some things that i really just can't do for sum1 e...i think i had a wrong notion of being a good friend...a good friend doesn't try to take your problems away... he's someone who's there with you with your problems...dinadamayan ka...makiki-iyak pa if kelangan...sum1 who's willing to drop what he's doing for you and tell you na "kaya mo yan"...someone who's there with you during your good times as well as your bad times...yun ang masarap na kaibigan...haha
ang dami ko pang naisip na ilagay but nakalimutan ko na...haha well my point is i would very like to say na i tried to be that good friend as much as i can...even if i had the wrong notion before but still, for my friends i'd like to say na i tried as best as i can to be a good friend and i'd still be trying from now on..hehe