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Why are girls so freaking jealous all the time and why are christians so judgemental??? Two questions I am fuming over...
If your at all pretty girls are horrible to you. I have had girls my age, younger, and older (i am talking 60 year olds) jealous. Over what??? Its like your judged and labeled even before you open your mouth. Its not fair. And people seem to condone this behavior in others. I had a girl who was talking about me and she was friends with a good friend of mine. Come to find out she doesnt like me because shes insecure around me over looks. My friend actually sympathizes with her and condones her treating me badly when all I have done was be nice to her. It is ridiculus. Thats like saying I dont like you because you are fat or I dont like you because you are black. It is all the same. Anyways I am just sick of it and wonder if it will always be this way. I am also sick of christians being judgemental to the point that they drive you out of the church. I am fortunate to go to a very non judgemental church where they are more concerned with seeking God than focusing the scrutinizing probe light on man. But I have been apart of a church where they just put u under the microscope and you always feel like you arent good enough no matter what you do. If you where a top that might be too low cut in their book, then you feel like you are a sleez when to just about everyone elses standards you look fine. And this is another thing, you cant where a nuns outfit everywhere you go in order for no guy to look at you. If I guy is going to lust over you hes going to lust over you. I dont think that you should go out in sleezy outfits but I think that some of the comments from some church people about certain tops that I have seen or even worn are over the top. Christians need to loosen up and focus on whats really important: God. They get all bent out of shape over the silliest things. There judgements keep God from reaching so many people. When will we ever learn???
If your at all pretty girls are horrible to you. I have had girls my age, younger, and older (i am talking 60 year olds) jealous. Over what??? Its like your judged and labeled even before you open your mouth. Its not fair. And people seem to condone this behavior in others. I had a girl who was talking about me and she was friends with a good friend of mine. Come to find out she doesnt like me because shes insecure around me over looks. My friend actually sympathizes with her and condones her treating me badly when all I have done was be nice to her. It is ridiculus. Thats like saying I dont like you because you are fat or I dont like you because you are black. It is all the same. Anyways I am just sick of it and wonder if it will always be this way. I am also sick of christians being judgemental to the point that they drive you out of the church. I am fortunate to go to a very non judgemental church where they are more concerned with seeking God than focusing the scrutinizing probe light on man. But I have been apart of a church where they just put u under the microscope and you always feel like you arent good enough no matter what you do. If you where a top that might be too low cut in their book, then you feel like you are a sleez when to just about everyone elses standards you look fine. And this is another thing, you cant where a nuns outfit everywhere you go in order for no guy to look at you. If I guy is going to lust over you hes going to lust over you. I dont think that you should go out in sleezy outfits but I think that some of the comments from some church people about certain tops that I have seen or even worn are over the top. Christians need to loosen up and focus on whats really important: God. They get all bent out of shape over the silliest things. There judgements keep God from reaching so many people. When will we ever learn???