Busy day, busy bee?
Today was a happy day: I went to an Mexican restaurant with some friends, ate a lot of quesadillas, nachos and tacos, had a lot of fun and took a lot of pictures. I even got presents, something I didn't really expect. It's funny, I'm a bit of a loner, never had friends like I do now. I guess I was just waiting for the right people.
Speaking of friends, one of them got me really worried this weekend: he just broke up with his girlfriend of two and a half years and was really depressed. He told me he was thinking about hurting himself. I guess what's worst is that he is living alone and has no family living in the same city. But his mum must have sensed she was needed, because she took a bus and spend some days with him.
I can't really understand that kind of pain, because I have never had a break up that left me so sad, but I got worried: when someone thinks about hurting themselves it means that he/she is so depressed he lost sense. But he was better, and I told him he shouldn't stay home alone or call his ex-girlfriend, because it would only make the situation worse. I told to think of it as some time for himself, and that if it was supposed to them to be together, they would be in the future, it would happen. I don't know if I said a lot of rubbish, but I had to say something. And of course, I listened. I think sometimes the best you can do for someone is just to listen them talk about their problems.
I hope I helped.
Speaking of friends, one of them got me really worried this weekend: he just broke up with his girlfriend of two and a half years and was really depressed. He told me he was thinking about hurting himself. I guess what's worst is that he is living alone and has no family living in the same city. But his mum must have sensed she was needed, because she took a bus and spend some days with him.
I can't really understand that kind of pain, because I have never had a break up that left me so sad, but I got worried: when someone thinks about hurting themselves it means that he/she is so depressed he lost sense. But he was better, and I told him he shouldn't stay home alone or call his ex-girlfriend, because it would only make the situation worse. I told to think of it as some time for himself, and that if it was supposed to them to be together, they would be in the future, it would happen. I don't know if I said a lot of rubbish, but I had to say something. And of course, I listened. I think sometimes the best you can do for someone is just to listen them talk about their problems.
I hope I helped.