Where do I live again?
It looks like the move to my sister's apartment is about to become permanent. Both she and her husband are good with the idea and I'm not entirely averse. I wish that we had entered into it on a more level playing field though. Under no circumstances am I looking for an authority figure. If I'm to live there and clean and be responsible for bills I will not answer to my "big" sister...I really hope she understands that. We've already discussed some things, such as my ability to have guests over if I so choose. She's not used to sharing, and has never liked sharing things with me...that kind of makes me think this might not be such a great idea, but maybe in time it will be ok. I've stayed with them for almost a month now, unofficially of course, and it has gone relatively well. I did cause ONE fight between them, but only because her husband liked that the apartment was clean and didn't like that she wasn't the one doing it...that's not entirely my fault though...she IS broken and he knew she was messy when they first moved in together (she just looks REALLY messy in contrast to my cleanliness).