you knows, people are always going to have problems. whenever i start feeling like shit, i do something that makes me happy. sometimes i need to go out and scream at a few people & punch a baby or two beforehand, but afterwards, i just chill...maybe listen to some music or play some games.
& it's cool that you are everyone's shoulder-to-cry-on. not everyone has that much patience for other peoples' problems. BUT when you give them advice, don't expect them to follow it. people need to make their own decisions and their own mistakes to be able to advance in this world. if they come & complain to you about how, "omg your advice didn't work," or some shit, just be like, "hey, i told you what I would have done. you need to learn to think for yourself."
people just lack the confidence in themselves to make their own way--so they come to you because they know you have the confidence they lack. it sucks, but just do the best you can & be happy with what you do.
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& it's cool that you are everyone's shoulder-to-cry-on. not everyone has that much patience for other peoples' problems.
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when you give them advice, don't expect them to follow it. people need to make their own decisions and their own mistakes to be able to advance in this world. if they come & complain to you about how, "omg your advice didn't work," or some shit, just be like,
"hey, i told you what I would have done. you need to learn to think for yourself."
people just lack the confidence in themselves to make their own way--so they come to you because they know you have the confidence they lack.
it sucks, but just do the best you can & be happy with what you do.
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