hmmmmm....interesting hehe ;) no i dont that just cause you may like guys makes you not a lesbo. i think i have the same problem sometimes...i find guys attractive..but i dont want the wing wang lol. i think that as long as your comfortable with your sexuality it shouldnt matter if you like guys, girls, transguys, transgirls, or genderqueers, or anything inbetween. i know i would consider dating anyone of them if i was attracted physically and emotionally. its all about the person. sorry for confusing you hehe. i guess i can be good at that. and no i definitely dont think you have to be straight to date a guy. just be you shellie....your amazing and you shouldnt need to worry about anything else ;) i am flattered and honored that if you were to date a guy it would be me :) it really means alot to me...ive never had anyone say that to me...its usually been the other way around..."if i dated girls i would want it to be you" which can be sorta insulting at the same time a compliment. your comment meant alot more tho...thanks for putting a smile on my face :) i love that your really intrigued by gender and this whole thing...it makes me happy your thinking about it critically....more people need to do that :) i love ya shellie!
no but it's true. god and i've been really thinking about it lately like i can't get it out of my head, its not all intense like i'm worried about my sexual identity you know? i was just talking to my ex-nicole on the phone about you and she feels the same way. I mean, I've always thought as myself as a open-minded person you know because i'm 'gay'and i think everyone here thinks that , but I don't think I really thought about it, like we were saying the other day about feminists being traditionalists...I feel like I used to be the same way, like set in my ways about who i was attracted to. it's like the more i think about it, the more i could def. see myself with a trans guy. because it's almost like both genders don't even exist. i mean, that's why i gravitate towards lesbians who are more boyish, so whats the difference? you know? i don't even know if this makes sense...hehe. aww. yer great
no i dont that just cause you may like guys makes you not a lesbo. i think i have the same problem sometimes...i find guys attractive..but i dont want the wing wang lol. i think that as long as your comfortable with your sexuality it shouldnt matter if you like guys, girls, transguys, transgirls, or genderqueers, or anything inbetween. i know i would consider dating anyone of them if i was attracted physically and emotionally. its all about the person. sorry for confusing you hehe. i guess i can be good at that. and no i definitely dont think you have to be straight to date a guy. just be you shellie....your amazing and you shouldnt need to worry about anything else ;) i am flattered and honored that if you were to date a guy it would be me :) it really means alot to me...ive never had anyone say that to me...its usually been the other way around..."if i dated girls i would want it to be you" which can be sorta insulting at the same time a compliment. your comment meant alot more tho...thanks for putting a smile on my face :) i love that your really intrigued by gender and this whole thing...it makes me happy your thinking about it critically....more people need to do that :)
i love ya shellie!
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