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Dear C,
I am so sick of this shit, and frankly you're a horrible friend - or maybe I should say "friend". You're only around when it's convenient for you, you only talk about what *you* want to talk about, and what I want usually gets dismissed or ignored. That's not okay, nor is that really a friendship. Rather, it's a one sided friendship.
Well guess what? You're going to get what you give. You can't ever seem to make time for me - or 'squeeze me in' for about 5 minutes? That's what you're going to get. I'm not going to make many plans with you, and when I do I'll make sure to have a back up plan. Chances are most of conversations will end up with me going 'Hey, it's been lovely but I need to run.' I might even feel bad about it if it weren't for the fact it already happens.
It's not that I'm entirely against being friends - but I'm also not about to keep pulling this on my own. If it wakes you up and gets you to start caring about the friendship again? Awesome, I'll start putting more effort in. If it means we drift apart? Well...it'll suck, considering how close we were - but I won't fight it. I've tried talking to you about it, I really have. Your response was to act hurt and offended that I'd even dare to think such a thing.
So, that's it. That's the best your getting from me until you start giving again.
Me
I am so sick of this shit, and frankly you're a horrible friend - or maybe I should say "friend". You're only around when it's convenient for you, you only talk about what *you* want to talk about, and what I want usually gets dismissed or ignored. That's not okay, nor is that really a friendship. Rather, it's a one sided friendship.
Well guess what? You're going to get what you give. You can't ever seem to make time for me - or 'squeeze me in' for about 5 minutes? That's what you're going to get. I'm not going to make many plans with you, and when I do I'll make sure to have a back up plan. Chances are most of conversations will end up with me going 'Hey, it's been lovely but I need to run.' I might even feel bad about it if it weren't for the fact it already happens.
It's not that I'm entirely against being friends - but I'm also not about to keep pulling this on my own. If it wakes you up and gets you to start caring about the friendship again? Awesome, I'll start putting more effort in. If it means we drift apart? Well...it'll suck, considering how close we were - but I won't fight it. I've tried talking to you about it, I really have. Your response was to act hurt and offended that I'd even dare to think such a thing.
So, that's it. That's the best your getting from me until you start giving again.
Me