S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Hi Mlle!
Tina says:
hi
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
How're you?
I came to visit you on Monday but told it was a bad day and to try again.. If you don't mind me asking, what was wrong? ^^:
Tina says:
I had a bad week last week. Someone special died.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/nods./
I'm sorry to hear that.
My friend's mom died last week too. =/
Tina says:
Really? What happened?
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
She had breast cancer.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
We'd come up right after the funeral had finished
Tina says:
That's too bad. I understand how you're feeling.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Indeed it is.
So how're you holding up?
Tina says:
Well, sometimes I'm good and other times I'm very, very sad.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/nods/
I can understand that very well..
So many people I've known have died since the end of grade 7
Tina says:
You really have had to deal with a lot. How is your friend doing?
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
He's taking it really well.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Like, anyone could tell you he's acting as if nothing had happened
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Runs around school joking with everyone.
Tina says:
Well, everyone handles it differently. Some people act like he is, but eventually it catches up to you. You know that I can't hide my feelings, so I'm talking about it a lot and I've done a lot of crying.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/nods/
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Talking about it usually helps the most.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
And having a good friend helps too ^_^
Tina says:
Well, I'm sure that he appreciates your support. Is it your friend that you've brought into the school?
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Yes. ^^:
Tina says:
Does he have a father? Brothers and sisters?
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
He has a father
Tina says:
That's good.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Yeh
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
So.
Got any plans for the weekend?
Tina says:
No, not really. I may clean my windows and do some chores around my place.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
I see.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Oh..
How was it where you are when the hurricane hit?
Tina says:
My car got flooded in the parking lot and my apartment almost got flooded.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Eeep. o.o
That's not good!
Tina says:
I lost my electricity for 5 days.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
That really sucks
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Halifax looks so bare now. =/
Tina says:
It's all very sad. I know that I'll never forget it.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Me neither.
Tina says:
That's how my friend died.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
I'm just glad that we didn't get hit with Hurricane Kate
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Ooh.. ><
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
I'm really sorry to hear that.
Tina says:
He was the paramedic that was killed by the falling tree.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Oh.. I drove by there today.. they have stuff all laid out for him.
Tina says:
Yes, I visited it on the Tuesday of that week.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
That was very sad.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/sends lots of hugs/
One thing to look forward to..
Once we stop grieving and move on.. we start to really focus on all the good times we had.
Tina says:
That's very true. It just feels like I'll never be happy again, but I guess that that will change. I've not had much experience with death. This is particularly hard, because he was too young to die.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/nods./
I understand.
Death is a very hard thing to cope with.
I believe that it may seem like it should've of happened.. but there is always a reason behind it.
I think the hardest death for me was when my mom's friend's baby died.. and then would come Justin and Denis during the summer before grade 8
Tina says:
You've gotten very wise.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Thank you. ^^:
Tina says:
You know, you're really an awesome girl. I hope that you know that. I'm very proud to have been part of your growing up life.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
You will be happy again too.
You're just in a state of grieving now and believing that. But it isn't true.
You'll find happiness in knowing that you had a chance to know him. And in friends
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
I'm very happy I got to meet you.
You've always been an awesome teacher and a great friend
Tina says:
Thank you.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
You're very welcome
Tina says:
I guess that it's almost time for bed. I'm exhausted. It's been a very long week. Come and visit me again. Thanks for the talk "wise one". Good night.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
/laughs./
Sleep well.
I will come visit you again. Perhapse Tuesday ^_^
Tina says:
See you soon.
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
Indeed!
Have a great weekend ^_^
Tina says:
you too
S.F. ; Worrying.. is believing something bad is happen.. which makes something bad happen. says:
And happy Thanksgiving!