I get it now....

[angelustatt]

The world it not set up for those of us who hate stepping on toes and try to do something good once in a while. I tried to help a friend without hurting feelings (despite the fact I would have been in the right) and what do I get in return? Headaches and lectures from other people.

Fine.

I get it.

I'll stop trying to help. I'll just look out for me and my own from now on.

Lesson learned.