Friends list cleanup
I have removed a good number of folks this morning from my friends list. I have also un-subscribed from my local bdsm community list.
My leather family has been through ENOUGH! I asked for help in the most humble way I knew how and when only 2 folks from the group showed up it bothered me but even still, everyone has thier own problems, so I let it go...
Now I hear folks have been openly (social room setting type area) criticizing the decisions my Ma'am has made about how she handles her own business!? And gossiping about her? NO. I won't have it... And neither would you if I sat around talking badly about You, or yours.
So I'm sad because I am choosing to close a chapter in my life, and possibly burning bridges but I expected more and maybe that's my fault. Now I realize RSVP isn't a community, or an honor bound leather club, it's a social club for players.
And to the person with the freezer. You are the worse of them all. Going around saying don't let her know I have it.. How f*** cking immature.
IT WAS PUT ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD! For all She cares you could put mustard and relish on it and EAT IT.
I have never heard of a family being treated this way by a community when they lost their house before. No one sits around speculating why
they didn't hire movers, ect..When people just lost their house they have the common sense to know.
1) the money might not be there for movers (since those type of expenses are upfront expenses)
2) there may be no professional movers available.
In a real community folks don't sit around criticizing they either pitch in or STFU.
There is nothing anyone can say to defend the folks who were doing this gossiping because my so called leather group has failed me and not that any one really gives a damn but this is what happens when a few folks open their TRAP, now I honestly don't know who is FRIEND or FOE with the exception of the ones left on my friends list.
And no this post is not Ma'am approved. I'll take my punishment later gladly to have been able to say how I feel.
This is also a public post for any one to read.
My leather family has been through ENOUGH! I asked for help in the most humble way I knew how and when only 2 folks from the group showed up it bothered me but even still, everyone has thier own problems, so I let it go...
Now I hear folks have been openly (social room setting type area) criticizing the decisions my Ma'am has made about how she handles her own business!? And gossiping about her? NO. I won't have it... And neither would you if I sat around talking badly about You, or yours.
So I'm sad because I am choosing to close a chapter in my life, and possibly burning bridges but I expected more and maybe that's my fault. Now I realize RSVP isn't a community, or an honor bound leather club, it's a social club for players.
And to the person with the freezer. You are the worse of them all. Going around saying don't let her know I have it.. How f*** cking immature.
IT WAS PUT ON THE SIDE OF THE ROAD! For all She cares you could put mustard and relish on it and EAT IT.
I have never heard of a family being treated this way by a community when they lost their house before. No one sits around speculating why
they didn't hire movers, ect..When people just lost their house they have the common sense to know.
1) the money might not be there for movers (since those type of expenses are upfront expenses)
2) there may be no professional movers available.
In a real community folks don't sit around criticizing they either pitch in or STFU.
There is nothing anyone can say to defend the folks who were doing this gossiping because my so called leather group has failed me and not that any one really gives a damn but this is what happens when a few folks open their TRAP, now I honestly don't know who is FRIEND or FOE with the exception of the ones left on my friends list.
And no this post is not Ma'am approved. I'll take my punishment later gladly to have been able to say how I feel.
This is also a public post for any one to read.