I think there's something to be said for the quiet sort of love that anticipates and fulfills need, in addition to being in control or whatever. You don't, in my opinion, have to be in control to give a fantastic blow job. Though the more interesting circumstances usually happen that way... Nor do you have to swallow to give a good blow job. That's flavor dependent for me- throwing up after swallowing is quite possibly the fastest way to end sexy times out there. There should be a mutualism- but there's also a respect thing. As the internet says, the problem is that boys look at the internet and grow up waiting for their cock hungry slut, while girls look at the media and keep waiting for prince charming. Not totally mutually exclusive, but also not totally congruent. There's some sort of subtlety that this comment is lacking- I think that your post is limiting of all the fantasticness that can be in a relationship while being emotionally respectful and considerate of both partners, but I'm not sure why and also can't elucidate my own stance very well.
Yeah, legitimately I can understand apparently most people do not appreciate or cannot appreciate the swallowing thing... which as I think about it, is totally cool, as long as the guy you are with understands and you are communicating that.
You are probably right. But like I have said; this post was really just a discussion on one itty bitty facet of a relationship that should already be communicative and trusting as well as respectful (didn't include that, should have). I wasn't trying to insinuate that a relationship should be founded on a girls ability to give head, or that a blow job can take the place of good structure and trust in a relationship.
It's just one area a few of my guy friends admitted to me they felt there lives were lacking, and I had an opinion that would be preaching to the choir for them, so I just decided to post it here. :)
Nor do you have to swallow to give a good blow job. That's flavor dependent for me- throwing up after swallowing is quite possibly the fastest way to end sexy times out there.
There should be a mutualism- but there's also a respect thing. As the internet says, the problem is that boys look at the internet and grow up waiting for their cock hungry slut, while girls look at the media and keep waiting for prince charming. Not totally mutually exclusive, but also not totally congruent.
There's some sort of subtlety that this comment is lacking- I think that your post is limiting of all the fantasticness that can be in a relationship while being emotionally respectful and considerate of both partners, but I'm not sure why and also can't elucidate my own stance very well.
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You are probably right. But like I have said; this post was really just a discussion on one itty bitty facet of a relationship that should already be communicative and trusting as well as respectful (didn't include that, should have). I wasn't trying to insinuate that a relationship should be founded on a girls ability to give head, or that a blow job can take the place of good structure and trust in a relationship.
It's just one area a few of my guy friends admitted to me they felt there lives were lacking, and I had an opinion that would be preaching to the choir for them, so I just decided to post it here. :)
BUT OMH YOU ARE POSTING ON MY JOURNAL! YAY!
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