Two Hundred Tenth Entry

[angelis_michela]

Allright.

After a long time with no entries containing some social problems, here I am with my newest issue.

Remember the girl I was telling you  who was so selfish as to not appreciate the food we cooked for her? This is about her.

Well she has been a very, very kind friend until now. As far as I can remember, she always forgets about my problems,

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[striderexile]

Hey, even if she does think that way, you won't be around to know it, right? If she comes back, she'll have (hopefully) learned a lesson in how to treat people, and if not, she can't hurt you anymore. :-) But in truth, it's highly likely that she would just think "Oh, I've been such a wonderful friend, and this is how she treats me??" That seems to be the pattern for people who treat others badly...they think that they're actually being really good friends, when in reality, they're doing nothing but causing pain to others. ^_^

lol, Well...in fairness, it's likely that Liz wasn't so much lying as she just didn't stop to think about what it meant for her to be ignoring me like that. It's a matter of this: She doesn't have to worry about such things, so it doesn't occur to her that it might be painful to someone else. So I can't really call her a liar...more like she's just plain ignorant of other people's feelings. I'm sure it's the same with your friend.
Haha, and yup...say A but do B...that's actually a really good way to put it. "I miss you so much!"...which is why I'm going to ignore you now that I have a chance to talk to you again. :-P Makes lots of sense, right? lol

And you're welcome, Michelle. Like I said, I'm always glad if I can help, even if only a little. :-)

[angelis_michela]

Yeah somehow you are right. I don't think that these people mean to hurt others. They simply don't care. And strangely, even if others tell them they have done something hurtful they still don't care -_________-
I don't know how to deal with these guys XDDDD

[striderexile]

lol, I'm still trying to figure it out, myself. It's tough, it really is...people have become so self-absorbed that they don't pay mind to the consequences of their actions (that's going to be a theme, can you tell? :-P). As long as it doesn't directly affect them, they have no reason to care, right? That's about the gist of it, at least. It's just blissful ignorance. Personally, while ignorance may be less painful, I prefer to keep my wits about me. :-P