Yeah, they are my joint second fav tv couple, I seem to ship a lot of the same ships as other A/G fans. For me the Delena chemistry is always brilliant, very UST-y. Though the break up scene with Elena and Stephan did make me like that pairing more. I have never been a big fan of Stephan. I guess I just like Delena together as well coz Damon lost out on Katherine, he evidently cared a lot more about her than Stephan did in a very innocent and naive kind of a way, so when he lost her her lost a lot more of himself too. You can see the massive difference between who he was and who he has become and I think for me how is with Elena, at times, reminds me of who he was before he lost Katherine. And I feel really bad for him that the two women he has loved have both chosen his brother over him. That has got to mess with your head! I find Damon's character really interesting and the best one on the show (though there is a little too much of his mood swings for me) and I guess coz of that i would ship him with anyone he seems to really care about. Totally agree with you about the number of people it would hurt- but that's another reason I like him so much. When he tells her he loves her he makes her forget it. I understand why he needed to just say it, to know that he has. But then he makes her forget it because she's better off with Stephan and he can't hurt his brother like that. But I think that often Damon looks out for/ understands Stephan more than the other way around. I love the bits of flashbacks to the 1800s so much because they were so close. AAAAHHHHHH no way, Delena CANNOT remind you of G/L!!!!!!!! *pouts* lol I can't really compare the two ships because of the difference in characters. Elena is a much weaker individual than Gwen and Damon is a much more complex character than Lancelot. That's my opinion anyways :P Sorry for the long rant :D
The reason why Delena reminds me of Gwencalot (the legend by the way)is because they will betray Stefan like that. Personally I don't find Stefan boring, he fascinates me. He draws you in with his sexiness. I may not be a big fan of Elena (mainly because what a SHADY BAD friend she was to Bonnie. When Bonnie needed her the most she turned her back to her, and didn't even tried to make amend), but I do seriously love love her with Stefan. With Stefan her good grades outshine, and the have this amazing pull-push-affect that every couple needs. And that makes them work for me. Despite this may be a love story between a vampire and human, they are a very healthy relationship. In fact dunno why, but Stelena kinda reminds me of Arwen. Okay before you dare to trow rotten tomatoes at me, just hear me out LOL. Both Arwen and Stelena have these many boundaries in front of them, and what the point is for the viewers who love them is to watch if they break through the boundaries, if they survive it. And that makes the two couples epic. Okay Stelena is nowhere near of being epic like Arwen, because they are competing against a 1500 year old love story, but still two amazing couples.
Personally I don't think Damon was actually in love with both Elena and Katherine. I think it was pure obsession to what he thought he was/is in love with. You know what You should read this AMAZING essay of a good friend of mine of why she couldn't Delena. I hope you won't get mad it, but get more realized what Delena is... a doomed ship. Here is the link. It is shocking but oh so amazing. For me then because I am both a big Stelena as Bamon fan :D
The reason why Delena reminds me of Gwencalot (the legend by the way)is because they will betray Stefan like that. ok, understand it better now. And yeah, I can see that (but I don't mind G/L nearly as much in the legend as i do on the show- in the legend it is much more justified, if still very sad for Arthur, on the show it just makes no sense whatsoever) He draws you in with his sexiness. Ah, I get that with Damon- his smile and eyes get me every time :P When Bonnie needed her the most she turned her back to her i know, elena is a crap friend and I love Bonnie- she is epic- I find elena soooooooooo self absorbed, cause she's got a load of drama going on in her life she forgets about everyone else. Stelena kinda reminds me of Arwen NEVER!!!!!!! :P They have no where near the epicness of the pendragons! I think I just find Stelena a little to easy, it was there from the beginning, it was an instant attraction and quickly became very serious- relationships like that never really interest me that- I like more of a build up. I get the same sense of surmounting challenges with A/G and S/E but A/G start overcoming all this challenges before the relationship, S/E do it afterwards, which I just don't like so much. I totally get why people like them together, i just don't as much. I think Damon did really love katherine, but yes in a totally obsessive kind of way, in a very teenager's first big love kind of a way. he was very open and got his heart stomped on. He has shut himself off for a long time and then elena comes along and I think initially his interest in elena is purely down to his re-awakened obsession with Katherine but then it becomes more than that. I will (tentaively) give it a look. And oh no not a Bamon fan too *sighs* :P what am i to do with you :P I personally like Bonnie and Jeremy together, they are rather cute :D
wow I think it is great you like Bonnie. It is kinda surprising, because it has noticed me that Delena fans don't like Bonnie that much (I hope I don't offend you with this), whether it because how Bonnie is the opposite of how Elena is ore maybe because she can be threat to their ship dunno. I love love love Bonnie. such a sweet amazing girl. I love her, you know some people said that she is like Morgana. To which I disagree I find her more like Gwen and Merlin. Personality of Gwen, and the powers/responsibility of Merlin. and NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I SOOOOO do NOt LIKE Bonnie and Jeremy. I do like the fact how he seems to be worried about her, and comforts her, it is truly refreshing, but uhm I don't see them get to work, because Bonnie falls for older men and Jeremy is a boy. I rather want Bonnie with Luka, the hot warlock, because that seems more sense to me. Bonnie needs a guy who will support her as the amazing respectful young woman and witch is, and Jeremy can't handle her. The only person I can see Bonnie with besides from Luka is Damon ore maybe Stefan. Bonnie is a strong young woman and she needs a strong man.
I'm not offended. She comes across as a really great person. She helps her friends even when she doesn't really want to, but sticks to her beliefs. She would make a much more interesting lead female in my opinion. She has that spark, where as Elena is just a bit boring. I think she reminds me of what gwen would be like translated into the modern day (and if she had magic)Haha- I think we just have polar opposite ships in TVD. I haven't actually seen any of the eps with Luka in yet, us brits are about 3 weeks behind the US, though we might well catch up now what with the massive gap until the 3rd of December. So I dunno if I like him with Bonnie yet. I think I just like Jeremy and Bonnie because she seems the happiest she has been in a long while when she is around him. Also he is reliable and caring and Bonnie needs someone like that in her life. She needs to be looked after occasionally, she spends so much time looking after everyone else- so I think she deserves that. (This is one of the reasons I like Arwen so much- Gwen looks after everyone else, rarely thinking about herself and then Arthur comes along and isn't overbearing or too overprotective but he is there whenever she needs him and would go to the ends of the earth for her- and she would do the same for him) I think it's just what I see as a lack of onscreen chemistry for me which means I can't really ship Bamon. Somehow it just doesn't click for me. I like the ship more this season than last, just because they seem to have more scenes together probably. But I think there would just be too many trust issues and doubts there. So I couldn't really see it working. Her and Stephan- if Elena wasn't involved YES! But neither of them would do that to her. I also kinda like Stephan and Caroline in a weird kind of way. To be honest I probably want Damon with some other character who has Bonnie's strength of character but he is able to be as open and vulnerable as he can be with Elena. Someone with whom there aren't so many serious obstacles.
Well consider Bamon is a canon ship in the books it will be a matter of time before we see the romance between them bloom. I am not worry about that. And I think it is amazing you think about what is the best for Damon. And personally I don´t think they have that many issues. It is mainly from Bonnie´s side. Ever noticed that Damon never lays a finger on Bonnie (except in History Repeating, but that rules out, because the image of what Damon saw was changing between Bonnie and Emily for us to believe he was actually SEEING Emily then Bonnie), and It will be a matter of time before Bonnie will ease her unlikeness to Damon. So I have faith in Bamon. And there will be more Bamon scenes in the upcoming episode :D
and Interesting what do Arwen shippers then ship. I wonder if I fit into the department. I at least Arwen/Frelin, Bamon/Stelena, Clois,Chlollie from Smallville
You should definitely watch Smallville. In fact Merlin is kinda based on that show. Goes about a prequel of a legend, both goes about a young boy learning about his powers and keeping it a secret. I love it. It is my newest addiction. Further then Merlin and Vampire Diaries, Smallville is my favorite TV-show. It goes about Clark Kent before he became superman, how he learns his values, morals, ideals and his friends around him, and how he eventually joins the justice league. It is definitely amazing. Really you should watch it. My favorite couple of it is Clois, Clark and Lois, and Chlollie (Chloe and Oliver), and by the way Oliver is yummy (Justin Hartley), but he only comes in season 6, and Lois who is by the way my favorite character only arrives in season 4.. I hope you will love Clois like me :D
But I think that often Damon looks out for/ understands Stephan more than the other way around. I love the bits of flashbacks to the 1800s so much because they were so close.
AAAAHHHHHH no way, Delena CANNOT remind you of G/L!!!!!!!! *pouts* lol I can't really compare the two ships because of the difference in characters. Elena is a much weaker individual than Gwen and Damon is a much more complex character than Lancelot.
That's my opinion anyways :P
Sorry for the long rant :D
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Personally I don't think Damon was actually in love with both Elena and Katherine. I think it was pure obsession to what he thought he was/is in love with. You know what You should read this AMAZING essay of a good friend of mine of why she couldn't Delena. I hope you won't get mad it, but get more realized what Delena is... a doomed ship. Here is the link. It is shocking but oh so amazing. For me then because I am both a big Stelena as Bamon fan :D
http://www.facebook.com/topic.php?uid=106357469967&topic=20821
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ok, understand it better now. And yeah, I can see that (but I don't mind G/L nearly as much in the legend as i do on the show- in the legend it is much more justified, if still very sad for Arthur, on the show it just makes no sense whatsoever)
He draws you in with his sexiness.
Ah, I get that with Damon- his smile and eyes get me every time :P
When Bonnie needed her the most she turned her back to her
i know, elena is a crap friend and I love Bonnie- she is epic- I find elena soooooooooo self absorbed, cause she's got a load of drama going on in her life she forgets about everyone else.
Stelena kinda reminds me of Arwen
NEVER!!!!!!! :P They have no where near the epicness of the pendragons! I think I just find Stelena a little to easy, it was there from the beginning, it was an instant attraction and quickly became very serious- relationships like that never really interest me that- I like more of a build up. I get the same sense of surmounting challenges with A/G and S/E but A/G start overcoming all this challenges before the relationship, S/E do it afterwards, which I just don't like so much. I totally get why people like them together, i just don't as much.
I think Damon did really love katherine, but yes in a totally obsessive kind of way, in a very teenager's first big love kind of a way. he was very open and got his heart stomped on. He has shut himself off for a long time and then elena comes along and I think initially his interest in elena is purely down to his re-awakened obsession with Katherine but then it becomes more than that.
I will (tentaively) give it a look. And oh no not a Bamon fan too *sighs* :P what am i to do with you :P I personally like Bonnie and Jeremy together, they are rather cute :D
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I think it's just what I see as a lack of onscreen chemistry for me which means I can't really ship Bamon. Somehow it just doesn't click for me. I like the ship more this season than last, just because they seem to have more scenes together probably. But I think there would just be too many trust issues and doubts there. So I couldn't really see it working.
Her and Stephan- if Elena wasn't involved YES! But neither of them would do that to her. I also kinda like Stephan and Caroline in a weird kind of way.
To be honest I probably want Damon with some other character who has Bonnie's strength of character but he is able to be as open and vulnerable as he can be with Elena. Someone with whom there aren't so many serious obstacles.
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