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I feel like all my relationships are going to hell. They are the last thing to go surprisingly- financial ruin, emotional ruin, messy marriage, and now slowly losing contact with my family and friends. It was inevitable I know, I'm really working on trying to get better and start to piece my life back together, but I feel like by the time I get there, there will be nothing left the way it was. MY mom came to the cities to spend Christmas with her family....that is with my sister because when she texted me Christmas eve morning asking what my plans were I didn't text back which led her to believe I was being hostile towards her and didn't want to see her.
Truth? I didn't want to see anyone on or around Christmas. The idea of family gatherings had me wanting to crawl underneath my comforter and stay until danger had passed. I would have loved for them to come by...all we did was sit around watching tv all morning by ourselves, but I am sick of telling people we have no money to visit them, and can hardly stand to leave the house due to crazy anxiety that takes over at least half of my days every month.
I am sick of saying we don't have any money, because I think people in general understand being at the bottom of the financial food chain about as well as they understand being terrified to participate in your previously favorite social activity.There are a few select people out there that truly understand, the rest don't even if they think they do.
Truth? I didn't want to see anyone on or around Christmas. The idea of family gatherings had me wanting to crawl underneath my comforter and stay until danger had passed. I would have loved for them to come by...all we did was sit around watching tv all morning by ourselves, but I am sick of telling people we have no money to visit them, and can hardly stand to leave the house due to crazy anxiety that takes over at least half of my days every month.
I am sick of saying we don't have any money, because I think people in general understand being at the bottom of the financial food chain about as well as they understand being terrified to participate in your previously favorite social activity.There are a few select people out there that truly understand, the rest don't even if they think they do.