If nothing ever changed, there'd be no butterflies
Its funny how life can change, you go along for ages thinking this is it then suddenly... it isn't any more. But change is all around us, all the time, its uncontrollable. It happens every day, even small things that we can't see. Everything is constantly changing, the seasons, the people who we love. Life cannot stay the same forever. Yet we fight it just the same.
We fight change because it is the unknown; and we fight the unknown because we are scared. Scared of change and scared of the unknown. What is known to us makes us feel safe - our safe zone, we know our boundaries. We know where we are and because we know this we feel in control, of both our lives and ourselves. When change occurs it threatens our stability and our whole sense of the world. We feel out of control - lost and empty.
But change is inevitable.
Instead of being frightened of change, we should perhaps welcome it. Allow our destiny to unfold, instead of trying desperately to hold on to things as they are.
We fight change because it is the unknown; and we fight the unknown because we are scared. Scared of change and scared of the unknown. What is known to us makes us feel safe - our safe zone, we know our boundaries. We know where we are and because we know this we feel in control, of both our lives and ourselves. When change occurs it threatens our stability and our whole sense of the world. We feel out of control - lost and empty.
But change is inevitable.
Instead of being frightened of change, we should perhaps welcome it. Allow our destiny to unfold, instead of trying desperately to hold on to things as they are.