...korose korose oya nado korose...
My parents are angry at us for trying to make our Wedding day nice. To the point where they told us off for making a 'unilateral' decision about guests. Now, to ask the reading audience - if there's one day that you're allowed to be selfish, and to pick and choose who you want there, it's your wedding day right? It's not like we're intending to
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Most definitely!
I'm so sorry your relationship with your parents isn't as good as it could (and should) be :-(
I can't really advise properly because I'm not in that situation but personally, from reading your post I do believe that it may be worth trying to loosen the ties with them. Yes they're your parents and they're the sole reason for you being here in the first place (so the only real parents you'll have) but if they are making you feel this depressed then it's not right! I am not saying to cut all ties because as I said if it wasn't for them you wouldn't be here, but there may be stuff you can do to ease the pressure.
You and Kate have a wonderful relationship and I'm so pleased for you - she's a diamond - but at the end of the day there is only one person who can make you happy, and that's YOU. So if anything is upsetting you then it is up to you to make it better. If the way to do that is to slacken the connections with your family then that is what you may have to do. Yes it's sad but is it sadder to live your life like this?
Take care *hugs*
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