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andrewducker August 18 2014, 13:28:19 UTC
Yeah, I really liked it. I want a partner that supports me positively, not one who wears me down.

Reminds me of something I remember Scott Adams said about speaker training. The person that trained him in how to carry out public speaking _never_ gave negative feedback, they only ever praised the bits that were good.

And oddly, by the end of a two-week course he was extremely confident, and was using only those bits that had been repeatedly praised :->

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philmophlegm August 18 2014, 15:04:50 UTC
That's an interesting approach - but - how many presenting skills courses last two weeks? I'm lucky if I get two hours to run a presenting skills course. If you've got plenty of time on a course, and a good teacher-to-pupil ratio, you can do things like show participants videos of themselves speaking. When you do that, they tend to identify their weaknesses anyway ( ... )

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andrewducker August 18 2014, 17:02:35 UTC
That sounds absolutely fascinating, and very-much worthwhile.

Oh, and focussed entirely, I'd note, on finding the positive and accentuating it!

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andrewducker August 20 2014, 07:22:22 UTC
True.

Our ccunsellor said very nice things about us (as a couple) the other day. I forget that we do things that other people don't necessarily do.

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