paranoia
I notice that all of my friends have one quirk which annoys the group. One is too sensitive, and another is argumentative, and another is sometimes too obnoxious...everybody has some trait that everyone complains about. There are these little spats between two friends that are really over nothing, but they continue because each person is unrelenting and immersed in their persona. It is frustrating to watch. You know when you watch a movie and two characters are feuding based on a misunderstanding? I just want to jump in the movie and explain why there shouldn't be a conflict. It is so awkward to be around that stuff.
But it seems that each friend has some quirk that I have to consider. I walk on egg shells sometimes so that no one gets upset. I often feel that I am the only one who doesn't have a trait that bothers my friends. Yet I know that everyone is discussed at some point and some aspect is complained about. I have no idea what is said about me. I don't know what it is that I do that pisses off my friends. I mean, if I am always hearing one friend gripe about someone else, how can I assume that at some point I am being griped about?
But it seems that each friend has some quirk that I have to consider. I walk on egg shells sometimes so that no one gets upset. I often feel that I am the only one who doesn't have a trait that bothers my friends. Yet I know that everyone is discussed at some point and some aspect is complained about. I have no idea what is said about me. I don't know what it is that I do that pisses off my friends. I mean, if I am always hearing one friend gripe about someone else, how can I assume that at some point I am being griped about?