golden rule
Treat others as you'd like to be treated- that seems so abstract, so theoretical, so.... Christian
And Ive been attempting this feat, with one person in particular,for the last 18 months. It's been excruciating. And now that I no longer have to be so bloody fair to this bully, it feels like a huge weight is lifted from me.
And now Ive got this completely unexpected collateral benefit from the effort: I find it much easier to forgive the person that I used to be, for being such a jerk. Having practiced this skill on others, I can use it on myself, and its easier now to live inside this skin
I never would have guessed!
And Ive been attempting this feat, with one person in particular,for the last 18 months. It's been excruciating. And now that I no longer have to be so bloody fair to this bully, it feels like a huge weight is lifted from me.
And now Ive got this completely unexpected collateral benefit from the effort: I find it much easier to forgive the person that I used to be, for being such a jerk. Having practiced this skill on others, I can use it on myself, and its easier now to live inside this skin
I never would have guessed!