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anamacha

on belonging.

May 25, 2006 15:28

I'm almost scared to write. I mean, I work in a call center. There's always the spectre of The Next Call hanging over my head. Thankfully I've been moved to a morning shift (0700 - 1600 for the curious) and that is currently far less busy than my previous 2d shift (that was 1530 - 0030). And I get to see my daughter more now, so it's good all ' ( Read more... )

job, spirit, self

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bottomlescup May 25 2006, 21:45:47 UTC

Anam, I know that feeling - I have been thinking the same thing - where do I belong? It could have been me writing what you wrote...isnt that the most precious thing in the world - to belong. Only love makes you belong.

That is one of the things I observed - real love, not the fake social 'I love you'. Real love where you feel welcome and wanted, appreciated, enjoyed, understood...if you disappeared, someone would miss your smile because you are so precious etc. My two cents.

anamacha May 26 2006, 13:57:44 UTC

there are places like that. I've caught glimpses, as I've alluded to. I just have no idea where to find that sort of thing, or how.

bottomlescup May 29 2006, 00:53:44 UTC

By resonance. When you go to the mall, you might see people who actually have what you are looking for - deep friendship, belonging, love, laughter etc - when you see them, if you can be happy for them because you know the value of what they have and how blessed they really are, you can bless them to have more of that which you crave for yourself, and pretend you are them enjoying that belonging vicariously through them...by doing these you will draw this abundance of love towards yourself - and these relationships will come to you effortlessly. Also by watching and enjoying movies or reading books that show these type of relationships - day dreaming playfully about these dreamy relationships - you set resonance for these.

anamacha May 31 2006, 17:06:45 UTC

ah yes ... like sympathetic magic. And adjusting of focus. In so doing, everyone wins.

bottomlescup May 31 2006, 17:34:04 UTC

sympathetic magic...I like the way you phrased it. :)

rhianwyn July 12 2006, 15:50:42 UTC

Know this, if you disappeared, not only your smile but your very essence would be not only missed, but longed for...Precious does not even begin to describe you in my world. A heartbeat that makes everything live and breathe, have a purpose, and want to keep on going and thriving...this is you, in my eyes, heart, and soul...

I Love YOU, I desire YOU, I need YOU

anamacha July 12 2006, 20:16:03 UTC

*blush* thank you ...

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