hey. i have a question. from a purely theoretical viewpoint, do you think that treating a woman like a piece of meat is ok? and i mean all fetishes and fantasies aside... it's ok to fantasize of course but i was wondering if you think that embarrassing a girl and all that stuff is disrespectful or not. you seem pretty open about it so i want to know, cause i'm a girl and i don't always understand guys. anyway i'm mostly responding to one of the older posts where you said that M asked you to talk about the anal sex porn and you said you liked seeing girls be treated like meat, like they were a bunch of holes to fill up. but besides the way you actually feel about it, what do you think about it? i am curious. to me, i don't like being treated like that because i want the boy to know i'm not just a buncha holes, i'm a person and it seems disrespectful to me if they don't treat me like one. but other girls have different opinions on that naturally and i want to know what you think about it too, what you think about wanting to humiliate a girl, etc.
by the way i'm not getting on your case or anything, i read your whole journal, it's interesting.
Humiliation and degradation are factors involved in sex games I like to play. In real life, these games are fun to play with people who also enjoy them or with people who, even if they don't enjoy them, are willing to submit to them. In fact, I guess you might be able to imagine from reading what you have of my journal, that the latter is often preferable. There's something incredibly hot about a girl thinking "I really don't like this, but I'm going to do it anyway." It's like she's molesting herself for my pleasure. Either way, I think consent is important.
However, there can be moments in a "standard" sexual encounter where I perceive something that I know would be humiliating to my partner- like the stink rising up from her ass- and the belief that she would be embarrassed if she knew is a huge turn on to me. I don't see this as requiring consent one way or another, as it's all taking place within my own twisted head.
As for fantasy life, well, as you point out, anything goes.
It may or may not surprise you to learn that outside of certain sexual scenarios, I am an exceedingly respectful and considerate partner.
that's all ok with me then. you know, cause i was just worried since you never actually explained what you think about all of it in real life. but now i get it. thanks.
by the way i'm not getting on your case or anything, i read your whole journal, it's interesting.
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However, there can be moments in a "standard" sexual encounter where I perceive something that I know would be humiliating to my partner- like the stink rising up from her ass- and the belief that she would be embarrassed if she knew is a huge turn on to me. I don't see this as requiring consent one way or another, as it's all taking place within my own twisted head.
As for fantasy life, well, as you point out, anything goes.
It may or may not surprise you to learn that outside of certain sexual scenarios, I am an exceedingly respectful and considerate partner.
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