I think everyone should stop complimenting each other. I would hate to think it could possibly be taken as racist if I mentioned how awesome I think Forest Whitiker is as an actor. Then, I question my own internal racism... am I racist? Oh no! What do I do, not mention that I think Forest Whittiker, in my opinion, is one of the best actors I've seen in a while? Yes, I would compare him to Peter O'Toole if I had seen more movies with Peter in them. So, does that make it all right? Why can't we be 5 again. I wonder what would heal more. Being sensitive to this issue and giving it the gravity to "keep the ball rolling" and continue to make an issue? Or, see the problem and not give it highlight. Though Biden may not have intended to be offensive, his comments were taken as ignorant and racist. It is his intention vs. the worlds perception. It is that way in all things. Life is to short to seek out offence and the negitive side of life. When you trip over it it is a waste of energy to put more effort than what is required to put it in its proper place and move on. The more energy given to these issues the more power it has over us and the more defensive we become walking on eggshells around each other. Whether it is racism, sexism, heterosexism etc.... Sometimes it is better to stop the ball, hold it, look at it, set it down and move on. That being said, if you are a public figure and you make public comments take care in how you speak. This being posted in a public space is a bit of a double standard as I have been careless and inarticulate.
I understand your frustration at the article because it sounds nitpicky and oversensitive. But I think it's pointing out this real behavior as a symptom of the way that we undervalue people. The point of the article is not to learn to get offended when someone gives a lame compliment; the point is to find new occasions to remind ourselves to really see and appreciate individuals.
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