Except... it isn't quite bullshit.
I am done being trans. Being trans was so fucking 20 years ago. I decided i wanted to be a girl, i did my transition, i got my surgery, the fucking end, i'm done with being trans.
Except, i suppose, you're never really done, are you?
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Hear, Hear! I totally agree! Gender is stupid. Just a person, try to be a good person - with the interests and preferences that you, as an individual, have. I'm just...me. I don't like makeup or pink or 99% of the things categorized as "female" - and I don't like sports or beer or most of the "manly" things either.
I like reading fantasy and sci-fi and silly romance novels. I like wearing comfy clothes and shoes, and painting my toenails occasionally. I like having my hair cut super short (pandemic cut!) and occasionally wearing earrings, but mostly can't be bothered. I like art and music and good food. I like playing with technology and writing code and petting dogs and cats. None of these things should be "girls" or "boys" things? They are all awesome things.
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I am not this skin,
I am the soul that lives within
Rumi, yo!
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and i think philosophy tube is great too
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Maybe for some people they can just put a bow on it at that point and say it's over, but for me it never really got rid of my root discomfort around gender in general. Like, i know i'm aesthetically and hormonally happier with bottom surgery, despite the minor inconvenience when peeing. But i'm still bitter that society structures itself around whether people were born with (or now have) a penis or a vagina in the first place. And it doesn't matter if i reject that binary personally, because it's not my choice, it's society's choice. So in the end it doesn't matter what i do, i'm still going to be forced into performing one thing or the other, and that is what creates the dysphoria for me, i think.
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