Who does that?
The dumbest thing happened today. I had made plans to hang out with Jered for the first time in months, to work on re-establishing a friendship. He then calls and informs me that his girlfriend would prefer it if we didn't hang out together just the two of us. What??? Ok, first off, they never gave me that satisfaction when I was with him. Instead they called me jealous, claimed I was making false assumptions, and did it anyway.
So here's Jered, asking me to call my friends to see if they could come with us. As if I want to put any of them in a potentially awkward situation if things go badly. Or even worse, end up doing something with a couple while him and I are obviously not one. No thank you. As a result our plans were nixed due to consideration of her discomfort.
The question is when does it become ok to restrict your boyfriend from hanging out with someone, when you were the one who invaded his previous relationship and stole him away in the first place? I can't say I blame her though. I mean the with the way he left me and his history of pushing boundaries. And I'm a super catch, so I could see where there could be trust issues or fear of him wanting to come back to me. If she only knew how far beyond that I am.
All I'm saying is don't dig into something you can't handle yourself. Disrespectful and selfish hypocrite that coyote.
And him, he claimed no girl was going to prevent us from spending time together...
Having to prove to myself that I am above her, and refraining from stooping to her level, is probably the hardest part of all this. I'd love to call her out but when this is all over I'm going to be seen in much higher regard. It's just going to take more time than I was expecting.
So here's Jered, asking me to call my friends to see if they could come with us. As if I want to put any of them in a potentially awkward situation if things go badly. Or even worse, end up doing something with a couple while him and I are obviously not one. No thank you. As a result our plans were nixed due to consideration of her discomfort.
The question is when does it become ok to restrict your boyfriend from hanging out with someone, when you were the one who invaded his previous relationship and stole him away in the first place? I can't say I blame her though. I mean the with the way he left me and his history of pushing boundaries. And I'm a super catch, so I could see where there could be trust issues or fear of him wanting to come back to me. If she only knew how far beyond that I am.
All I'm saying is don't dig into something you can't handle yourself. Disrespectful and selfish hypocrite that coyote.
And him, he claimed no girl was going to prevent us from spending time together...
Having to prove to myself that I am above her, and refraining from stooping to her level, is probably the hardest part of all this. I'd love to call her out but when this is all over I'm going to be seen in much higher regard. It's just going to take more time than I was expecting.