i know its just hard. like i've tried every way to help her, but she just won't listen. we got into it again last night, and i'm done being considerate. like... she needs to start to try to get over him.. its not even though shes trying. and i'm trying to make that clear to her.
i know shell miss him. and i know she still loves him, but somethings got to give. she needs to deal with whats been handed to her instead of dealing with things in the past and trying to make it happen the way she wants it to.
if it weren't for the baby i wouldn't care if she was with him or not.. but theres a baby comming. ready or not. and i do feel like i've taken on the father role. lol. but she can't be so selfish. esp considering if her parents find out that he was here.. this really will all be taken away from her. you don't know her dad. he would kick her out.
its just crazy times right now. and in the end its her decision, but since i'm living here and i'm willing to put up with a new born and still go to work at 7am every morning.. this does concern me too. =/
but yeah dude. tips would def help out. shes never even held a baby... i've worked at a day care for a few days and had 5 babies at once lol.. so i have a little knowledge but nothing like she will need.
i will help you get things when the time comes, but I remember the one thing that I got that I LOVED was some cute comfortable pajamas. I had been feeling huge for the past year and not really fitting into anything but brandons shirts. girly pajamas felt wonderful!
like i've tried every way to help her, but she just won't listen.
we got into it again last night, and i'm done being considerate.
like... she needs to start to try to get over him..
its not even though shes trying. and i'm trying to make that clear to her.
i know shell miss him. and i know she still loves him, but somethings got to give. she needs to deal with whats been handed to her instead of dealing with things in the past and trying to make it happen the way she wants it to.
if it weren't for the baby i wouldn't care if she was with him or not.. but theres a baby comming. ready or not.
and i do feel like i've taken on the father role. lol.
but she can't be so selfish. esp considering if her parents find out that he was here.. this really will all be taken away from her.
you don't know her dad. he would kick her out.
its just crazy times right now. and in the end its her decision, but since i'm living here and i'm willing to put up with a new born and still go to work at 7am every morning.. this does concern me too. =/
but yeah dude. tips would def help out.
shes never even held a baby...
i've worked at a day care for a few days and had 5 babies at once lol..
so i have a little knowledge but nothing like she will need.
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