Isn't it lovely to live in a sexist culture where women aren't considered real humans?

[amilyn]

I've been meaning to post a link to this for a while now. cereta made a post that has spawned lots of thought and discussion that I think is important.

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Re: Why I Am Part Of The Problem

[amilyn]

I didn't eat or sleep more than a tiny bit for about three weeks

Oh, honey. I know how that is and it SUCKS and...*hugs*

and my immune system completely collapsed, and mono of doom! cfids! badness occurred.

*hugs* again... Yeah. I know that LOTS of ED and CFIDS folks (way more in that first camp...like...nearly 100%, I think) have abuse in their backgrounds and your comments made me curious since I knew that the CFIDS-onset started in college.

I think it's wrong that large families are stigmatized

I have issue with large families in a number of ways. I think that kids get less attention in large families and I think that there is a strong tendency to deputize the older kids to take care of the younger ones. One of the things I've read about large (over 6 or 8 kids) families is that the older half of the kids tend NOT to want large families (they got lots of WORK and frustration out of it) and the younger kids (who didn't have as much responsibility but were taken care of by everyone) often WANT large families. That says a lot to me.

if you're able to raise five or six intelligent, caring, thinking, environmentally conscious beings in this incredibly affluent nation, you are possibly doing more good for the planet than not having those kids

THIS, however, is an EXCELLENT point.

"I can provide for and love every member of my ridiculously large brood, and I really want to."

*grin*

I think it's also wrong to assume that God wants all humans to do nothing except reproduce, whether or not they want to or it's the best thing for their family.

EXACTLY THIS.

Also, the idea of breeding FOR THE PURPOSE of RAISING children to be brainwashed into worshiping YOUR god YOUR way and shunning any of the children who stray from that path...that's my impression of the QuiverFull folks (and the Mormons...and several other scary-fundamentalist Christian groups' policies/expectations). I mean, it's essentially breeding an army, and seeing your children as little soldiers who are as much "owned" by you as soldiers are "owned" by the government, and I have nothing polite to say about viewing one's own children in that manner.

Additionally, the QuiverFull folks deliberately distrubute patently false information about birth control to increase the control they have over the families who believe this movement is From God, as well as promoting false information declaring vasectomies to be dangerous and cause "blowouts" in the male system since undergoing the procecure leads to greater incidence of EVERYTHING from testicular pain to non-hodgkins lymphoma, erectile dysfunction, and lung cancer. Yeah.

They claim that concerns about global overpopulation are alarmist tactics by a group trying to establish global control. They hold up Margaret Sanger (founder of Planned Parenthood) as a crock, and say that, "Population control, therefore, is an ideology founded on pessimistic, irrational fears, misleading and false statistics, and efforts to manipulate people, rather than on Truth."

And this emphasis on getting and staying pregnant cannot possibly result in women having a SAY in their lives and bodies. The movement is also those conservative literalist-Bible Christians who believe that wives should "be in submission," that women should "keep silent," and that men should be the unchallenged head of the household "even as Christ is head of the church."

...need I go on?

[amilyn]

Holy crap is that QuiverFull stuff scary! Yikes. And careful with referring to Mormoms as Christians. That'll get you into all sorts of trouble because it's not strictly accurate, but that's another rant.

As for the Christians who take issue with condoms, I can put that into historical context for you. It's from Leviticus, which is a morality code made specifically for the Jewish people during that specific point in history. Masturbation, male homosexual relations, and contraception were all lumped together as "spilling the seed of life" and therefore evil because there was a strong need, both from a practical standpoint and for God's plan, for the Jewish nation to grow in population. The belief at the time was that women were just incubators, and that a child came completely from the father's contribution. To spill that contribution anywhere but into the incubator was therefore murder, and murder of a much needed child, at that.

What does that mean now? Well, scientifically we know better (note that the Bible itself does not make any inaccurate claims about the nature of sperm, that's just cultural context), and also the Earth is populated. Bans on homosexual relations, condoms, and masturbation should be lifted along with bans on shellfish, pork, shaving, and vegetable gardens, because all of those things were part of the morality code in Leviticus, which became irrelevant with the new covenant God made with his people through Christ. These laws protected the people of Israel at a time when they needed protecting from things that are quite simply not an issue any more, and they were never meant for the larger population anyway.

And this is from a strict Biblical standpoint -- considering the fact that our government has no right to make laws based on any one religion, it should be obvious from a political standpoint that anything that makes it harder for people to obtain birth control is just blatantly wrong.

The people who compare birth control to abortion are clearly not listening to God. And I'll stop now before I get ranting on people who claim to do God's work but in fact accomplish just the opposite.

[amilyn]

Holy crap is that QuiverFull stuff scary! Yikes.

Indeed.

careful with referring to Mormoms as Christians

I consider them Christians because they consider themselves Christians. They have an additional prophet they believe in, but their primary theology of salvation and the like are Biblical in basis: they believe Jesus died for mankind's sins, that one must be baptized for redemption of sins, etc. I have a couple of friends who grew up Mormon (and RAN) and they are really UPSET by people who insist that Mormons aren't Christians, even after leaving.

And my Catholic friends are sort of horrified that the fundamentlist Christian group of my childhood considers Catholicism to be idolatrous because of the iconography...

As for the Christians who take issue with condoms...
because there was a strong need, both from a practical standpoint and for God's plan, for the Jewish nation to grow in population

Course, the primary Christians (other than the QuiverFull folks) who forbid condoms are also the Catholics...whose anti-birth control edict comes down from a Post-Plague Europe with a 50-75% reduction in population: same reason, similar cause.

all of those things were part of the morality code in Leviticus, which became irrelevant with the new covenant God made with his people through Christ.

That's the thing that drives me CRAZY. Again, I grew up in a conservative, fundamentalist group...but a SCHOLARLY group: we READ and UNDERSTOOD the book of Hebrews, which is a legal brief outlining the reasons that the Old Law had been done away with unless it had been repeated in New Law (NT). So when I see fundamentalist Christians on the tear of, "It says right here in Leviticus...." I see red...then I say, "Oh, really? Do you eat cheesburgers? Wear poly-cotton clothes? Use electricity or pockets on Saturday? Then SHUT UP."

considering the fact that our government has no right to make laws based on any one religion, it should be obvious from a political standpoint that anything that makes it harder for people to obtain birth control is just blatantly wrong.

Preach it, sister.

And I'll stand at your back and make sure the people behind you can hear too.