My current outlook on these "things"
Relationships don't just "work out." You have to make it work. Like the many things in life, these types of things require work; equal work on both sides. There is no such thing as soul mates and maybe you weren't meant for each other. You aren't perfect. Nobody is. Some way, some how you two are together and you can't help but feel at your prime at given times... but that sort of thing isn't going to last forever. You will encounter more and more problems and find yourself in more predicaments as time goes by. There will be those times where you can't even stand the person or look at them in the face. That determines if one of you is going to give up or both of you are going to call it quits. That doesn't mean that you should constantly pick out flaws and know it's okay to admit that you were wrong every once in a while. There will be times where one has to work harder than the other. Love should be unconditional and there should be no "you owe me" or "I owe you." Both sides should be fair to each other: Guys, realize when you really are being an insensitive asshole and Girls, know when you're really letting your insecurities take over. Both sides should be as good of a listener as the other, and not one side try to overwhelm the other with their own burdens without thinking about how the other would feel. Biting your tounge is a good habit to pick up sometimes.
Without communication, trust, and respect.... we have nothing.
Even with time, there's some tear and jaded luxuries. Like the butterflies aren't there any more or sometimes when those kisses were so passionate and exciting you would forget to breathe. Sometimes I miss how you'd call me just to hear my voice and say good night. Maybe we are getting too comfortable. I'm at a point right now where I just don't know what to do. You're aggitating it and I keep instigating it. In the end, I just don't want to lose you...