Happy New Year
If a person feel they have lived an unhappy life, there is bound to come a day when they stop in their tracks and say to themselves
"Its enough, there has to be a change"
At that point there are two possible roads to take and that person has to make a choice. Many take the easy road, stay the same and just wait for the change to happen by itself. This will sooner or later be proved to be a bad choice since the change doesn't lay in the world around but in ourselves, and therefore we need to take the hard road and start to take control of our own lives. So far in my life I've unfortunately been a very lazy person. I've had many dreams about my future and life, but I haven't done much about it. I've let others influence my choices and later blamed them for being unhappy and then just sat there dreaming of a better life, but never truly did anything about it.
Now, again, thanks to my friends catching their dreams, I've stopped to think about the changes I want done. And now I've finally taken the first step on the hard road towards MY dream. And it has already proved itself hard. Han I not seriously felt I need this change to survive I could already have gone back to the easy road. But now it's final and I will move away from the forest and to the big city. This has made some people go completely silent, and some scream louder than ever. It really does seem like everyone are afraid of changes. I however have grown hopeful about my own change and afraid to stay where I have always been.
Also, since its the first day of a new year, I want to make some New Year's resolutions as a part of my change.
1. Study Japanese
2. Follow the Pilates plan
3. Start with the martial arts
In other words, finally do what I've planned for years and stop being so lazy! (I wonder how many people out there makes these resolutions and never keep them.. )
"Its enough, there has to be a change"
At that point there are two possible roads to take and that person has to make a choice. Many take the easy road, stay the same and just wait for the change to happen by itself. This will sooner or later be proved to be a bad choice since the change doesn't lay in the world around but in ourselves, and therefore we need to take the hard road and start to take control of our own lives. So far in my life I've unfortunately been a very lazy person. I've had many dreams about my future and life, but I haven't done much about it. I've let others influence my choices and later blamed them for being unhappy and then just sat there dreaming of a better life, but never truly did anything about it.
Now, again, thanks to my friends catching their dreams, I've stopped to think about the changes I want done. And now I've finally taken the first step on the hard road towards MY dream. And it has already proved itself hard. Han I not seriously felt I need this change to survive I could already have gone back to the easy road. But now it's final and I will move away from the forest and to the big city. This has made some people go completely silent, and some scream louder than ever. It really does seem like everyone are afraid of changes. I however have grown hopeful about my own change and afraid to stay where I have always been.
Also, since its the first day of a new year, I want to make some New Year's resolutions as a part of my change.
1. Study Japanese
2. Follow the Pilates plan
3. Start with the martial arts
In other words, finally do what I've planned for years and stop being so lazy! (I wonder how many people out there makes these resolutions and never keep them.. )