just fyi, i'm more calm in my life now than i've been in a long while. and i'm a lot more happier now than i've been in years.
i've said it once, i'll say it again, just because i don't write about the good doesn't mean it doesn't happen. i just have to get the shit out of me so i can appreciate the good more.
I don't mean this offensively (again), but so what? My post didn't ask how you are.
I guess we're opposites there too. To me it seems a bit cruel to force my unhappiness (and with you it often seems like nothing but unhappiness) on others. There's nothing better than coming home from a great day at work to read your miserable posts about killing yourself. It gets people down, because some people (ie - me) care about your well-being. Instead, I try to take responsibility for my upsets, and share my happiness with my friends. What kind of a friend shares misery? Or I keep it short and simple; those interested in learning more can ask, but it doesn't affect any one else's mood.
I'd like to think that I would never reply to one of your emotional posts with how amazing my life is without even showing any regard for the upset addressed in your post. But then, again, we show our opposites apparently.
And since I'm assuming this post, however ill-timed, is actually in response to my comment....being calm and happy doesn't negate the fact that you're emotionally reactive. Over-reactive at times. I'm not saying that I haven't done the same thing (I'm not perfect), and I'm not asking you to change; I don't care how you treat others, but I will not be treated that way. I'm not your friend just so you can spew negativity, and over-react over every comment, no matter how innocent they might be
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No, what I said was that I care and want you as a friend, but I don't want a friend that is nothing but negativity. If what you're saying is that you're only that later, that's another story.
i've said it once, i'll say it again, just because i don't write about the good doesn't mean it doesn't happen. i just have to get the shit out of me so i can appreciate the good more.
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I guess we're opposites there too. To me it seems a bit cruel to force my unhappiness (and with you it often seems like nothing but unhappiness) on others. There's nothing better than coming home from a great day at work to read your miserable posts about killing yourself. It gets people down, because some people (ie - me) care about your well-being. Instead, I try to take responsibility for my upsets, and share my happiness with my friends. What kind of a friend shares misery? Or I keep it short and simple; those interested in learning more can ask, but it doesn't affect any one else's mood.
I'd like to think that I would never reply to one of your emotional posts with how amazing my life is without even showing any regard for the upset addressed in your post. But then, again, we show our opposites apparently.
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