Let me go
It's crazy you know. All the emotions that are involved in a messy break up. The hate phase, the confused bystands that are both of your freinds. There are no wrong and rights here. They say all is fair in love in war... well sometimes.. love is war. And not like a full on bloody war with casualties and glory, more like a cold war. So cold that it could freeze the warmth from the rest of your body; Creating hypothermia for you compassion.
There is also this other instct which baffles me. For some, we see something slipping out of our grasp and we freak out and try to drag it in by all means possible. Disregarding the feelings of the other person because there is this hidden knowledge that if they stray to far (even to heal or lick their wounds) they will disapaer forever. It's just not the case, and I think that if you would initially just let the person go and give them some time to figure everything out, things would be better then they are if you freak out in the first place.
So, I'm kind of on the receiving end of that right now. And, it's pretty lame. I can't get mad. I can't scream that stalker or something rediculous like that. But I do think it's unfair. You can only request time away from a person, but if they choose to not listen, then well... hell I don't know what's next.
There's always cave dwelling. But, it's hard to get camera lights to work down there.
-tony
There is also this other instct which baffles me. For some, we see something slipping out of our grasp and we freak out and try to drag it in by all means possible. Disregarding the feelings of the other person because there is this hidden knowledge that if they stray to far (even to heal or lick their wounds) they will disapaer forever. It's just not the case, and I think that if you would initially just let the person go and give them some time to figure everything out, things would be better then they are if you freak out in the first place.
So, I'm kind of on the receiving end of that right now. And, it's pretty lame. I can't get mad. I can't scream that stalker or something rediculous like that. But I do think it's unfair. You can only request time away from a person, but if they choose to not listen, then well... hell I don't know what's next.
There's always cave dwelling. But, it's hard to get camera lights to work down there.
-tony