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The party was pretty much a success, despite the weather. As for the shopping and purikura beforehand, I missed most of it because I ended staying at Muffy's place longer than I was trying to. I made her like two dozen chocolate cupcakes for her birthday (which was also Saturday). We got pretty deep into conversation, like we always do, talked about her condition so far, her school, my school, my depression, Jasmine, dramu with her brother Bryan, etc. We went in pretty deep.
Apparently she developed permanent Asthma after giving birth, which really fucking sucks. She doesn't like the asthma pump and med they gave her because it makes things inconvenient while taking care of Jasmine. Eddie was taking a nap and wasn't feeling very well so I didn't talk to him very much. Muffy was telling me what she had gotten during Black Friday, what she's looking at through eBay, and then how she's dealing with her postpartum depression. Then we got a bit deep into the whole depression thing, school, church and also Horace. Muffy pretty much told me that sometimes I just gotta do shit regardless of how I feel about it, but at the moment making decisions like that are definitely hard for me. It's hard to break my habits and it's even harder to talk to Horace without crying when I don't want to cry at all. I feel pretty embarrassed now that I've brought the stuff up because I feel that I'm the only one hung over it, and that I should've been got over it in the first place. Even though I want to, I don't feel like bringing it up again anymore. I thought of writing a letter and all and giving it to him, since I can better than I can speak, but I feel that it's a bit ridiculous. I still have to think about it.
Jazzy was pretty much sleep half the time, and when she woke up she was hungry lol. She gotten so much bigger! Her cheeks are fuller (pinchable, urghhhhh <3) and her crying is much clearer than when she was first born, and her little facial expressions of when she wants something... so adorable. Unfortunately I can't hold her, and Muffy isn't letting anyone from outside the family hold her until Jasmine gets her first shots, which should be in a few weeks.
Despite the fact that he got a Order of Protection against him by Eddie from when he stabbed Eddie in the back, Muffy's brother Bryan kept on coming over trying to see their mom. She was out of the house but he came back 3-4 times over a 1-2 hour period, it was annoying. Muffy was getting angry because to her, her mom really doesn't care -what- ends up happening in the house. Their dining table is gone from being broken during the last fight. Her mom was always one to play favorites, and naturally since Bryan is her only son, she still tries to go out the way for him, while he lies and shit. It's kind of sad.
Anyways so yeah, I didn't get to Flushing till nearly 5. I was kind of nervous and antsy because from what I was hearing no one was really getting into looking around at the stores or purikura, mainly because of the weather, and I didn't want them to just sit there, not wanting to do anything. I'm glad some of them got into the mood with purikura, but nowhere near close to the insanity I go through when me and vapor_saturnine go in there like addicts. When I got there I took a snap with nashiko, then we got ready to go to Rose House. I was also antsy because I didn't have time to change into what I wanted to wear quick enough, and because of the timing I didn't do my hair exactly how I wanted, and then I had to give directions to lost people (when I don't know anything about Queens, being that the furthest away I've been from the 7 train stop was pretty much the purikura place, etc. The first hour I was kind of headless trying to see where people were at and whatnot. After a while I finally got settled in with the rest of the group though and got comfortable.
The food and tea was pretty damn awesome. corrosivematter kept getting up to get the different kind of teas every 5 minutes, and when she found out there was not just two blends, but 3, she got even more excited. It was lulzy. I'm glad everyone liked the food and desserts! To be honest I only told them what I wanted, and I didn't pay attention to their other choices, I just said ok. xD (lol I didnt want to try and understand their Engrish). So yeah, I was sort of surprised to see fried Chicken with the rest of the food (was it fried? or was it baked? I forget). I'm glad there was no accidents e.x. someone dropping and breaking plates or teacups, or dropping food on the floor. I'm also glad that mostly everyone was being social, with not too many people trying to be hiding in the back by their lonesome. The White Elephant gift exchange was pretty good, just a bit longer than I expected xD You guys were serious about wrapping those presents! God damnnnn
Also, Martha, about the teapot bag, don't worry about it xD I'm sure if you ask Nancy to, she can get you one for like 20 bucks at her job. Get that fucking shit
Now mad girls were telling me to do one for June's Lolita day @w@ Which I've been thinking about for the longest time, so we'll see! I'll probably come up with a game plan for that before New Year's. And it might be at the Rose House again, since you guys want to go back so badly xD They want us to come back too! So yeah we'll see.
One of the things I'll probably not do next time, is try and meet up with people beforehand. That ended up being too much of a hassle, especially when I only really got like less than 10 hours of sleep during this whole weekend. Maybe next time I'll see about having the party in the middle of the afternoon so we can get to purikura and do more of it. The only thing is that once you get to Rose House, you'll be too tired from exhaustion and food high to do anything else except sleep xD Maybe since the people know me now for going with Cat all the time, I can talk and see if they can work with us? I dunno, too many thoughts in my head about this, I need to stop thinking ahead of time. xD
But yeah... I'm glad everyone had fun <3 And I'm glad that whoever got my snowflake bracelet liked it <3 (Better have, shit was almost 20 bucks xD)
Apparently she developed permanent Asthma after giving birth, which really fucking sucks. She doesn't like the asthma pump and med they gave her because it makes things inconvenient while taking care of Jasmine. Eddie was taking a nap and wasn't feeling very well so I didn't talk to him very much. Muffy was telling me what she had gotten during Black Friday, what she's looking at through eBay, and then how she's dealing with her postpartum depression. Then we got a bit deep into the whole depression thing, school, church and also Horace. Muffy pretty much told me that sometimes I just gotta do shit regardless of how I feel about it, but at the moment making decisions like that are definitely hard for me. It's hard to break my habits and it's even harder to talk to Horace without crying when I don't want to cry at all. I feel pretty embarrassed now that I've brought the stuff up because I feel that I'm the only one hung over it, and that I should've been got over it in the first place. Even though I want to, I don't feel like bringing it up again anymore. I thought of writing a letter and all and giving it to him, since I can better than I can speak, but I feel that it's a bit ridiculous. I still have to think about it.
Jazzy was pretty much sleep half the time, and when she woke up she was hungry lol. She gotten so much bigger! Her cheeks are fuller (pinchable, urghhhhh <3) and her crying is much clearer than when she was first born, and her little facial expressions of when she wants something... so adorable. Unfortunately I can't hold her, and Muffy isn't letting anyone from outside the family hold her until Jasmine gets her first shots, which should be in a few weeks.
Despite the fact that he got a Order of Protection against him by Eddie from when he stabbed Eddie in the back, Muffy's brother Bryan kept on coming over trying to see their mom. She was out of the house but he came back 3-4 times over a 1-2 hour period, it was annoying. Muffy was getting angry because to her, her mom really doesn't care -what- ends up happening in the house. Their dining table is gone from being broken during the last fight. Her mom was always one to play favorites, and naturally since Bryan is her only son, she still tries to go out the way for him, while he lies and shit. It's kind of sad.
Anyways so yeah, I didn't get to Flushing till nearly 5. I was kind of nervous and antsy because from what I was hearing no one was really getting into looking around at the stores or purikura, mainly because of the weather, and I didn't want them to just sit there, not wanting to do anything. I'm glad some of them got into the mood with purikura, but nowhere near close to the insanity I go through when me and vapor_saturnine go in there like addicts. When I got there I took a snap with nashiko, then we got ready to go to Rose House. I was also antsy because I didn't have time to change into what I wanted to wear quick enough, and because of the timing I didn't do my hair exactly how I wanted, and then I had to give directions to lost people (when I don't know anything about Queens, being that the furthest away I've been from the 7 train stop was pretty much the purikura place, etc. The first hour I was kind of headless trying to see where people were at and whatnot. After a while I finally got settled in with the rest of the group though and got comfortable.
The food and tea was pretty damn awesome. corrosivematter kept getting up to get the different kind of teas every 5 minutes, and when she found out there was not just two blends, but 3, she got even more excited. It was lulzy. I'm glad everyone liked the food and desserts! To be honest I only told them what I wanted, and I didn't pay attention to their other choices, I just said ok. xD (lol I didnt want to try and understand their Engrish). So yeah, I was sort of surprised to see fried Chicken with the rest of the food (was it fried? or was it baked? I forget). I'm glad there was no accidents e.x. someone dropping and breaking plates or teacups, or dropping food on the floor. I'm also glad that mostly everyone was being social, with not too many people trying to be hiding in the back by their lonesome. The White Elephant gift exchange was pretty good, just a bit longer than I expected xD You guys were serious about wrapping those presents! God damnnnn
Also, Martha, about the teapot bag, don't worry about it xD I'm sure if you ask Nancy to, she can get you one for like 20 bucks at her job. Get that fucking shit
Now mad girls were telling me to do one for June's Lolita day @w@ Which I've been thinking about for the longest time, so we'll see! I'll probably come up with a game plan for that before New Year's. And it might be at the Rose House again, since you guys want to go back so badly xD They want us to come back too! So yeah we'll see.
One of the things I'll probably not do next time, is try and meet up with people beforehand. That ended up being too much of a hassle, especially when I only really got like less than 10 hours of sleep during this whole weekend. Maybe next time I'll see about having the party in the middle of the afternoon so we can get to purikura and do more of it. The only thing is that once you get to Rose House, you'll be too tired from exhaustion and food high to do anything else except sleep xD Maybe since the people know me now for going with Cat all the time, I can talk and see if they can work with us? I dunno, too many thoughts in my head about this, I need to stop thinking ahead of time. xD
But yeah... I'm glad everyone had fun <3 And I'm glad that whoever got my snowflake bracelet liked it <3 (Better have, shit was almost 20 bucks xD)