you should really learn to respect yourself as a woman.

Oct 13, 2004 15:21

what an eventful weekend, wouldnt you say ( Read more... )

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amanakamalia October 13 2004, 19:28:17 UTC
i replied but then it got erased.here's the shortened version:
1. yes, you are partially wrong about this entry and what you think it is.
2. this isnt high school drama - it's more like amusement of the irony of it all
3. about the whole personal/privacy thing...then you need to go talk to drucker/jon/chris...not me. i was told about this like 3 hours before the whole nation knew- literally- and i didnt say a thing. also, i write in my lj for my friends who i went to wootton with to catch up on lives and whatever
4. and yes, i do think that women should respect themselves, i doubt you think any differently.
5. and yes, when people go to college, they do crazy fun things...and NO, not everyone knows what they are/were doing sometimes
6. people judge people. you judge people too, dont deny it.
7. i know what its like to be the topic of conversation, and it sucks. and if anything, she should try to see it from someone elses point of view. they made the decision - not everyone who have views about it/talk about it
8. if i hurt her feelings, then that sucks. im sorry that she's hurting. from what i was told, she didnt care what i think, she could care less about me, and she moved on, and she found her niche and she found other people to replace me or whatever, and when she heard that i found out and when she heard that i thought it was funny, she was reliefed. so sorry - i didnt know my...what...2 references about the whole thing are hurting her. and actually, i really dont see why you're not calling out the people who are putting things on their away message or profiles about it. and yea, it's because im more mature...which is why im not doing what other people are doing. every choice has a cansequence. and trust me, this isnt even that bad.
9. was this entry entitled to make her cry or to hurt her? no. not at all. if i wanted to, it would have been 3 pages long.
and finally...
10. this whole thing was not completely blown out of proportion until you left your comment.

...listen- i dont think you know the entire story and history of it all. the the truth is, no one is going to care about what happened by the end of this weekend. as of now, everyone's just making fun of other people...and it's harmless. besides, i know people have been IMing her and teasing her and whatever, and from what i heard, she doesnt care. anyways, steph...i dont hold anything you said against you. i think you're a good friend for defending your best friend. and also, my entry was not just about them. they werent the only people in the room you know. so yea, you are kinda wrong and you def. blew this outta proportion. talk to me through IM since i kno the both of us dont want to get into details here.
<3 amanda

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amanakamalia October 13 2004, 19:50:40 UTC
in reference to number 6:
yea, i think its wrong to judge people....who you dont know at all. i know her very well and still do.

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amanakamalia October 14 2004, 04:53:38 UTC
sorry, i just had to say one more thing.
um, i dont feel bad, and if you think that im being a little brat for this and if you think that im being immature because i wrote 2 things about it, then dont look so deep into it...and think that, because you're the only one who thinks that. i, actually, am very shocked that im still affecting her and that she even reads my lj's since ive been off her friends list for a while. actually, you know what, you reallllllllllly do not know the entire story of it all, so dont accuse me for doing anything wrong and blowing things outta proportion, because i havent, you just did. im not gonna feel bad or say, " oh poor baby" for the things that she's done or said. not to mention that fact that no one will care.

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